DH having BD performance anxiety??
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DH having BD performance anxiety??
| Wed, 10-15-2008 - 4:49pm |
I tried to keep it a secret that it was time, I even spiced it up a bit,
| Wed, 10-15-2008 - 4:49pm |
I tried to keep it a secret that it was time, I even spiced it up a bit,
OH erin, i am so sorry! i kind of know how you feel. While my Dh has always managed to 'finish', (he is a trooper, just like your dh) there are times when it takes so flipping long, that i am thinking ("he must be anxious becuase this is baby-making sex!") and i know how upset i would be if he couldnt 'deliver the goods'
i have in the past suggested to ladies to play up the "uh-oh, i might get PG if we;re not careful" kind of role playing thing, but i almost think that makes it worse in some cases!! But give that kind of play a try, and other than that, act like it doesnt matter, and let that help YOU not to care too.
I know, we want it pretty badly, but believe me, it will happen. Just takes once!!
GL!!!
Jenny
with DH Tighe, 4.5 yo Janey and 23 mo Edgar B
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11/1997 - Found my future husband!
5/2003 - Married my love! Life is Great!!
2/2004 - had my Jane, 9 months later ;-) Life just keeps getting better!
5/2004 - diagnosed with MS. Life Sucks!!
2/2006 - FINALLY got pg with #2, after 2 years of waiting for fertility to return, 6 cycles of trying.
11/2006 - Edgar B (GERB) arrived
10/2008 - looks like another 2 years of waiting.... I am on cycle 5 of trying!!
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Dh Tighe
6.5 yo DD Jane
4 yo DS Edgar
1.5 yo DS Hugo
Baby #4 due 08/14/11
Hi Erin,
ok...this may or may not help...
an acquaintance of mine is 9 weeks pregnant...she swears she doesn't undertand how because he did not "finish"
isn't there spermies in the pre-ejaculation?
Yes, there are sperm in pre-ejaculate.