DH having BD performance anxiety??

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DH having BD performance anxiety??
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Wed, 10-15-2008 - 4:49pm

I tried to keep it a secret that it was time, I even spiced it up a bit,

Erin

McKenna 7 yrs

Liam 10 months

Baby EDD Nov 30

 

 

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Wed, 10-15-2008 - 6:18pm

OH erin, i am so sorry! i kind of know how you feel. While my Dh has always managed to 'finish', (he is a trooper, just like your dh) there are times when it takes so flipping long, that i am thinking ("he must be anxious becuase this is baby-making sex!") and i know how upset i would be if he couldnt 'deliver the goods'

i have in the past suggested to ladies to play up the "uh-oh, i might get PG if we;re not careful" kind of role playing thing, but i almost think that makes it worse in some cases!! But give that kind of play a try, and other than that, act like it doesnt matter, and let that help YOU not to care too.

I know, we want it pretty badly, but believe me, it will happen. Just takes once!!

GL!!!



Jenny


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Wed, 10-15-2008 - 7:34pm

Hi Erin,


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Thu, 10-16-2008 - 12:54pm
Hey ladies!

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Thu, 10-16-2008 - 1:22pm

ok...this may or may not help...


an acquaintance of mine is 9 weeks pregnant...she swears she doesn't undertand how because he did not "finish"


isn't there spermies in the pre-ejaculation?

 


 

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Registered: 09-27-2008
Thu, 10-16-2008 - 2:34pm

Yes, there are sperm in pre-ejaculate.