DH is sending mixed messages

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DH is sending mixed messages
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Wed, 02-18-2009 - 10:05am
Hmmm....I'm confused.

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Registered: 02-04-2004
Wed, 02-18-2009 - 10:12am

Sometimes men are uncomfortable with the pressure

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Registered: 05-04-2006
Wed, 02-18-2009 - 10:28am
Thanks. :-)

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Registered: 03-06-2007
Wed, 02-18-2009 - 12:02pm

My DH sounds like your DH! He's all for having a second kid...but when the time is right BDing is the furthest thing form his mind! Then like the next day he is all over it and wonders why I don't get pregnant?! I've tried to explain the timing thing to him...still not sure he fully understands the seriousness of it. We have decided it is better though if I don't tell him when 'it's time'...rather I should just initiate it. Then he isn't under pressure to 'perform'.

Maybe you can set your alarm for around the time he gets home.

Patrice - Mommy to Wyatt 11/12/07

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/24c826

Patrice - Mommy to Wyatt 11/12/07 & Madelyn 11/29/09

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Registered: 11-02-2004
Wed, 02-18-2009 - 7:36pm
I don't know that I'd consider it mixed messages. Quite honestly, knowing my guy, he probably forgot! I think you should jump his bones. That should keep him at attention!

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Registered: 05-04-2006
Thu, 02-19-2009 - 7:29am
Thanks, Ladies. :-)

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Registered: 02-06-2009
Thu, 02-19-2009 - 10:58am
I agree with Aimee...just jump his bones! haha It sounds like both of you are maybe feeling a little vulnerable?? Maybe one night when he comes home from work, meet him at the door in a sexy little outfit. ALLLLL thoughts of pressure or vulnerability will instantly be forgotten! :o) Good luck to you!!!

Me:I'm 38 and have been trying to conceive since June 2008. Cycles 1-7 natural BFN Cycle 8- IUI with Femara and trigger BFN Cycle 9- IUI with Femara and trigger BFN

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Registered: 04-18-2003
Thu, 02-19-2009 - 4:21pm

Honestly we tried for 3 months then the pressure got too much for him and he called off TTC.

Erin

McKenna 7 yrs

Liam 10 months

Baby EDD Nov 30

 

 

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Registered: 05-19-2008
Thu, 02-19-2009 - 4:29pm

Just don't tell him you are about to Ovulate, then there's no pressure.


Just enjoy the sex amd see what happens.


Julie

Julie (34)

 Julie and Steven - TTC # 1 for over 2 years.

IVF  # 1 - Marc

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Registered: 11-02-2004
Thu, 02-19-2009 - 8:27pm
My DH experiences some peformance issues that I think

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