DH Too Tired....BD ?

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Registered: 07-28-2003
DH Too Tired....BD ?
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Sat, 08-09-2003 - 12:07pm
Hi,

This is the weekend DH & I were to have our BD-fest. Started Friday morning, but this morning DH was too tired to get any spermies out. AARRRRRRRR...

I still have not gotten a Peak on my monitor yet though, so should I

1) skip today all together and just BD tomorrow morning and Monday morning

OR

2) BD this afternoon, tomorrow afternoon (24hours to replenish DH) and

Monday morning (less than 24 hours)

Thanks!

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Registered: 07-08-2003
Sat, 08-09-2003 - 12:32pm
I had this issue this cycle too. I say, if you can get him "up" this afternoon, go for option 2 (that is unless, DH has a low sperm count issue). I only managed to get in 1 "good" day this cycle, so I am probablt out. We'll see Tuesday!!

Good Luck, go wake that little guy up!!!


Tee

 

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Sat, 08-09-2003 - 1:57pm
We've had this problem too and came to the conclusion that the morning was just not a good time for DH to BD. If it was us, I would try this afternoon, Sunday afternoon/night and then Monday afternoon/night.
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Registered: 07-16-2003
Sat, 08-09-2003 - 3:31pm
I think that these sperms live minimum about 2 days and that skipping a day would not hurt at all. Actually some go for 36 hours between one day and another and some prefer every day and some do it every other day and yet get pregnant. Any way you mentioned I can see a good chance for you. So go for it which way you feel better and your DH feels better.

((((Hugs ))))


Lama

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Registered: 06-19-2003
Sat, 08-09-2003 - 3:36pm
Morning works for me. :) DH and I are usually on major different schedules during the week. I've gotten into the habit of waking him up after I take my temps at 6am. Then I stay there for another hour of sleep before I have to get up. Just something that works for us.

Melony

TTC #1 C3 cd11

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Registered: 07-28-2003
Sat, 08-09-2003 - 6:41pm
Thank you everyone...DH & I BD'd this afternoon. We will most likely BD tomorrow afternoon and I will also see what happens with my monitor reading in the morning.

Usually I can feel "O" which I haven't yet..hope I am going to "O" this month. Last month I O'd on cd14, but when I conceived dd, I O'd on cd16 (according to monitor). Never haven't "O"d (that I am aware of). What stress we put on ourselves..uugghhh!

Good Luck to all of you too!!! Baby Dust at ya~~~~~~~~

-Donna

ttc#2,c2,cd14