DH vent

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DH vent
Thu, 03-27-2003 - 1:24pm
Today was his payday and he saw the new balance in the check book and kinda freaked out. I get paid on Tuesday. We have about $100 left until then. Apparently he had "plans" for that money. He planned to take his sister out for dinner and drinks and he wanted to buy a sword for his movie (he's making a Matrix fan film) as well as other things for the movie. I got pissy and said he could have his sister pay for herself for once and have his so-called "partner" pay for half of the stuff for the movie. Then I said once we get pregnant we're going to have to put half of my check in the bank everytime I get paid. That's when he pissed me off. He said "well, I guess we'll have to put that on the back burner for now." I asked him if he meant TTC and he said yes. So I exploded. LOL I went off on him about his sister and his "partner" and his movie. He's wanting to do this movie over the summer, but he's not thinking about where the money is going to come from. I guess he assumed that I would be willing to be broke for the next 6 months or however long it takes to do his movie. I told him no way, he's going to have to get his "partner" to cough up some money or put the movie on the back burner. He's been bugging me about wanting a baby for the past year and a half and now that I'm ready for another baby, he wants to back out just so he can fund his movie. GRRRRR

Did I mention that he spent $600 of our tax return on a new video camera and misc camera stuff? He wrote the script and is doing all the CGI work. His "partner" is the star of the movie and is supposedly collaborating on it. He will get half the credit. Doesn't sound fair to me.

Sorry for the crappy sentence/paragraph structure, but I'm ticked. LOL


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In reply to: paccookie
Thu, 03-27-2003 - 2:16pm
Sorry to hear you are having such a rough go with things. When DH and I were trying to conceieve my son..Hes now 7 months old. THings would go well for a while, then if we came across finacial troubles, our found a bill that had been overlooked he would say that maybe we were making the wrong decision. NOt even realizing what an emotional toll it was taking on me. Once he realized what he was saying and what it meant we talked things over and now we have our son..some of our bill have taken as you say the back burner..but we get them covered when we can..Whats a little bad credit when it comes to that precious little chunker..lol.

Hope things work out for you, Sorry about your tax refund too. I just cashed mine almost $2500. and I have to pay it all out to visa, etc. Really sucks.


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