Discouraged...12 DPO and BFN
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Discouraged...12 DPO and BFN
| Tue, 09-30-2008 - 3:47pm |
Hi ladies, I'm a frequent lurker but this is my first time posting. DH and I started TTC this month and I'm officially obsessed with testing. I'm 12 DPO right now and have taken 5 tests today (I told you I was obsessed! LOL!) and they were all BFN. I know it's still early, but I've gotten pregnant three times (one ended in m/c) and all three times I tested positive on either 11 DPO or 12 DPO. Not to mention the last two times I got pregnant it only took one try, and this was our first month trying...
What do you ladies think? Be honest, I can handle it! :)
P.S. No pg symptoms except CM is out of control--normally very dry except during ovulation.




Well, anything different than usual could be a good thing (the CM). We'll keep our fingers crossed.
I also got a BFN today, but have no idea where I am and if I even ovulated.
First of all - you've got a beautiful siggy!
I agree - unusual symptoms are a good sign. At 12 dpo, though, I would have thought you'd get the BFP by now. Maybe test again tomorrow or the next day (don't go crazy, now), and let us know! Good luck!
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Hi, Mama!
I'm feeling discouraged, too...I'm 14 dpo and still BFN.
OK now lets settle down. missy, you listen to me!! 5 HPTS is NOT obsessive, LOL i have taken 7!! Just not all in one day, so ok, you ARE obsessive!!
i know what you mean - my first PG was a first time, first try baby. didnt get a BFP until 15 dpo tho! af was 2 days late. But i wasnt charting as seriously then.
Then my second PG, i got a BFP at 10 or 11 dpo!! so i assumed that i would have gotten my BFP for my first pregnancy by 11 dpo if i had charted better. and i assumed that this time, TTC #3 i would get my BFP at 11 dpo too.
well, first of all i am not sure how many DPo i am becuae my chart is crazy!! but i was sure AF was coming yesterday (temp dropped) and then today (spotting) but now i am thinking this spotting could be,,... GASP implantation bleeding I HOpE I HOPE!! and so i am 12 dpo by MY estimation (FF says 11 i think) and i am cautiously optimistic that i may get a BFP tomorrow, if this spotting does not turn to red flow!!!!
So don't let the "11 dpo rule" bring you down!! i was letting it, and now i am changing my tune!!!
Baby dust!! stay calm and test tormorrow!! BTW, my CM has been extra creamy chunky too, very unlike my usual 2ww!! GL!!
Jenny
with DH Tighe, 4.5 yo Janey and 1.5 yo Edgar B
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+ Jenny +
Dh Tighe
6.5 yo DD Jane
4 yo DS Edgar
1.5 yo DS Hugo
Baby #4 due 08/14/11
It's kinda early, it all depends when the super-glue sticky bean caved his first home inside ya. You may be PG, sometimes it's just early. FFriend is just a hint, but who knows whats going on inside, right?
I saw you like to poas, so keep doing till af comes (I'm not this kind, but I understand LOL)Maybe not 5 in one day, but soon it will show.
Good Luck!
Lua
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