Do you think we stress too much?

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Registered: 09-14-2008
Do you think we stress too much?
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Wed, 11-12-2008 - 9:57pm

Soo I keep hearing dont stress and it will happen. My one girlfriend just got PG and told me this is the month i didnt think about it because of her wedding. And she told me to stop focusing on it and that it will happen.


Well I want this bad soo how do I not think about it. My friend isnt the only one. Many peopl have told me not to stress. Well I dont know but I cant help it.


So i thinking about it and posting about it keeping us from geting PG?


I dunno. What do you think?


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Wed, 11-12-2008 - 10:03pm

I think of this like that joke about how you're not paranoid if they're really after you.

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Registered: 09-14-2008
Wed, 11-12-2008 - 10:07pm

Yeah i know.


i think your right.


So lets see. I tried not to stress about ttc this month and it worked all the way up to almost my 1ww!


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Wed, 11-12-2008 - 10:08pm

I agree with Holly.


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Wed, 11-12-2008 - 10:21pm

It's great if you made it to the 1ww before getting too stressed!


I'm actually planning to not temp next cycle (which should be starting in a couple days).

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Wed, 11-12-2008 - 10:56pm
I guess that is true.. NOO more stressing about stressing!!!


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Thu, 11-13-2008 - 9:03am

I never really understood this argument. People say all the time "don't stress and it will happen" and "it happens when you least expect it if you're not stressing." It doesn't make sense to me. I guess I look at it more from a science viewpoint ... we O and we are fertile during a certain time and need to BD during those times. Stress has nothing to do with it.

But, yes, we DO stress :)




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Registered: 10-14-2008
Thu, 11-13-2008 - 9:18am
For those who are ttc...anticipation leads to "stress". I agree that it should'nt be sooo stressful, but being excited to create a life is awesome to me! Yup I do stress and get crazy 2weeks a month...but I have a beautiful goal and I want to do all I can to achieve my goal of a miracle! Utlimately God is in control and will choose His timing for us to conceive but we do have science and research to help us help HIm!!! Gl to you all! anyone around cd3 and waiting for waiting to o? hehe AMy


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Thu, 11-13-2008 - 9:37am

when i as TTC DD1...I started this whole journey of temping and clomid and BD'ing on schedules and all the stuff....we did IUI even...nothing...well 2 losses....then I stopped because I was depressed....


and I wound up preggo....


with DD2...I stopped OCP and did not have a period at all....found out I was preggo in that 1st cycle off the pills.