Does Your DH Like All This BD!

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Does Your DH Like All This BD!
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Wed, 10-01-2008 - 4:17pm

My DH says he does not like working under such hard deadlines and on the spot performance demands! Normally we only do the deed once a week, so 3 times in a week is a lot for him, he is turning into an old man (by the way we are 34 YO)!LOL


He does like not worrying about NOT trying to get PG and can squirt inside me (Sorry TMI)! That is my least favorite part.......the smell of sperm makes me want to vomit!

 
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Registered: 09-07-2008
Wed, 10-01-2008 - 4:36pm
well for me sometimes dh gets tired and i can sense it even before we reach teh bedroom. so what i do is just wiat. sometimes he likes to play his gameboy(ik ik all men are kids) or read a bit. and ill just pretend to ignore him. more than not hell come close and then i manipulate it to look like he wanted it.

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Registered: 01-29-2008
Wed, 10-01-2008 - 4:42pm
DH is neutral!




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Wed, 10-01-2008 - 4:59pm
This is too funny.
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Wed, 10-01-2008 - 5:07pm

I'm 29 and my DH is 31...we usually BD 2-3 times a week.

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Wed, 10-01-2008 - 5:43pm
Funny topic!!
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Wed, 10-01-2008 - 5:51pm

ya, it is pretty gross, LOL smells like bleach!!

my dh likes to BD often so it is OK. but if we are not trying, i'd like to BD every 2nd or 3rd day. i think he'd naturally want to more like every 4th day. weird that i want it more. if we skip it for a long time, then i could go without it FOREVER, so that is why i like to keep up with it.

but when we are TTC, we both are OK with doing it every day, or twice a day at fertile times ;-)



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Registered: 07-31-2008
Wed, 10-01-2008 - 8:47pm

Oh no, you are not alone girl!!! I feel that my DH is right at the same point of yours now and I keep telling him "before you always wanted and I was no, no, toomuch and now..????! " I hate this! I want to keep it uo but not stressing him but the whole thing ends up stressing me!


Anyway, men can be funny... :o)


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Wed, 10-01-2008 - 8:48pm

Mine loves!
And now that I'm hiding the dates to keep the romantic in-the-mood-right-now, he keeps asking, are we in the schedule? Are you fertile? Is better to do it tomorrow too so we can guarantee LOL!

he just do the opposite. When he knew the date, he was pressured. And now he doesn't, he wants to know...

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Registered: 09-27-2008
Wed, 10-01-2008 - 9:24pm
i don't tell my hubby anything about my chart or temps. i don't want him to feel pressured.. before TTC, it was once/wk (usually sat morn) cuz i was always so tired.
now, i go with the flow. and if it's fertile time, i "trick" him bc he's sooo easy.
all i have to do is NOT wear pj's to bed and snuggle up against him. works like a charm!
he acts like he's complaining & accusing me of using him, but he usually has a smirk on his face.
and now i'm always s3xually harassing him.. i think he really enjoys all the attention.
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Registered: 09-28-2008
Wed, 10-01-2008 - 9:27pm
My sister told me not to tell DH that it was 'the' time... I said that he would probably realize that something was awry :) He does feel a little pressure but, frankly, he is loving the BD...!!
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