Dumb Beezy!! I know... not again...

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Registered: 09-14-2008
Dumb Beezy!! I know... not again...
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Fri, 12-12-2008 - 7:41pm

I have dumb beezy for a BFF.


Okay. She is dirt poor. And she has spent countless dollars on Little Ceasers Hot and Ready Pizza. Okay a meal there is 10 dollars. And she has bought two this past week and plans to buy another one this weekend.


Normally I would care..but again my nephew..2 years and a half and he doesnt have milk or juice. I told her that maybe she should go buy top Ramon and Milk. He needs it!


She of course got short and blew me off as usual with her "I will talk to ____(her Fiance)"


And they just want for them!! Well sorry if your poor and have no money then you need to buy the nessecities.


Also she has no insurance for her kid. And I told her to go to WIC and she keeps putting it off. So he


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Registered: 01-13-2006
Sat, 12-13-2008 - 1:13pm

Ugh....I hate people that do this!!! My fiance's sister and her dh are pretty much the same way as your friend....they are constantly trading their vehicles in, and can't even afford to have them in the first place, and even used their son's piggy bank money to buy a dog, that they talked their son into wanting (he had been saving for a mini dirtbike to be like his uncle :) ). To top it off.....they found out they were pg a few months ago, of course without having to go thru the horror of actually ttc. Grr....

I can't really just drop them, since they are family and all...but in your case...its possible, but then you have to deal with knowing that even his own mother canot put his needs before her wants. Its hard seeing people who have kids, treat them this way when all of us are here who actually want a baby to take care of and dedicate our lives to.... good luck!!

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Registered: 08-14-2008
Sat, 12-13-2008 - 3:39pm
I can relate! I know *alot* of people like that and I've basically just had to completely cut off ties. Its too annoying and stressful for me. I agree though - it is hard to meet new friends. Hopefully we will get our BPFs and be preoccupied with that.



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