Excitement gone?

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Registered: 07-21-2006
Excitement gone?
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Thu, 08-02-2012 - 8:59am
So my first son was a surprise! So we didn't ttc with him. Then it only took one month to concive my second son. I know that I can take up to a year or longer to concive but with this one We tried for three months and needed to stop because of medical issues and now after starting again I'm on to month four. I guess all the charting analyzing and testing has just zapped me. I had a 40 day cycle a while back and I thought for sure i had to be but then nope. I guess i just feel over it. I know that sounds crazy so soon but i can't help it. Just wondering if any of you have felt like this. It's frustrating to be trying to maintain a really healthy lifestyle as if I'm pregnant and then month after month I'm not. Af just showed so maybe my hormones are making me looney.
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Thu, 08-02-2012 - 12:10pm
That's not crazy at all, totally understand what you are feeling. When you get pg so easily in the past, it makes it very frustrating when it doesn't happen as quickly. Have you thought about taking a break from charting to see if that takes the pressure off?

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Thu, 08-02-2012 - 3:11pm
Yes, that's exactly what I'm going to do. I hope it helps :smileyhappy: thank you for letting me know I'm not crazy lol
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Thu, 08-02-2012 - 3:40pm

You are welcome :smileyhappy:

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Sat, 08-04-2012 - 10:02am
I definitely feel this way too! It's very frustrating and sometimes I wonder if it's ever going to happen!
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Tue, 08-07-2012 - 3:20am
Wow u thought u was the only one. I am in the exact same situation.first son was a suprise second we only tried one month. Now we have been trying for 8 months but I had a pap and doc said I have a tilted uterus. She decided to put me on the pill for a few months n I absolutely hate it! I have gained ten pounds back that I had kept off since we started trying. I was excited to start out 10 pounds lighter than normal but not anymore. I have had my period 3 times in the past 7 weeks n I am soo done with this pill. Hopefully we can get preggo soon but I obsessed about ovulation and such so now we are just trying to enjoy making a baby rather than make it a job. Baby dust to u!
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Tue, 08-07-2012 - 3:22am
Meant to say I thought I was the only one*
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Wed, 08-08-2012 - 8:14pm
Well id does make me feel better that i am not the only one! I just feel kinda guilty when some have been trying for years.
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