Freaking out, ahhh, what does this mean

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Registered: 01-06-2009
Freaking out, ahhh, what does this mean
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Tue, 02-03-2009 - 11:18am

Hey ladies, I thought I had an implantation dip and was hoping for another high temp but today it dropped, ahhh. What does this mean? I took yet another hpt and - for the third time in a row. I'm about to lose it seriously.


By looking at my chart can you expert ladies tell what might happen??? It's only 12dpo but with 3- hpt I'm just so confused. I thought my chances were really high and someone even mentioned I could have a trphasic chart.


Also today's temp was taken at 8:00 am which is normally suppose to be taken at 10:00 am. I'm a first time charter so still learning the ropes, didn't realize when I first started to chart I had to take all the temps at the same time but today I had to get up early.


Please tell me my chances are still good??? Also, what if my temp drops tomorrow but what if it goes up, ahhh HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Tue, 02-03-2009 - 11:28am
Because the temps were taken outside your normal temping time, it's hard to say one way or the other. As long as AF hasn't shown and your temps are still above coverline you're still in the running. Also remember, 12 DPO is still a bit early. Give it a few days (for the sake of your sanity!)
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Tue, 02-03-2009 - 11:39am

Thanks for your advice. I just can't help it. I want my BFP so badly!!!


I wish I didn't have to get up early today, now it's going to bug me. I told my mother and sister I would go to breakfast with them. Now, I'm just too upset to go.


What if I temp at 10am...I know there is not point but it might make me feel better. I won't record but will that kind of give me an idea of what I would have had if I did get up at that time??? I'm crazy huh? Lol, just want my BFP so bad.


AT night time, I feel really bloated and full and get some light cramps. They have been happening for days now. But only at night. I feel different, I really do that is why I'm freaking out. I'm thinking my body feels pregnant but the test says no.


I have never done a pg blood test. What do those entitle??? Do they just take blood and say ok pregnant or not pregnant. Do you think that would be able to tell me accurately and sooner than a hpt?

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Tue, 02-03-2009 - 2:59pm
A blood test will tell you if you are or are not but most doctors will not order an hcg blood test without reason, such as a positive hpt or AF being more than just a few days late. Your best bet is to continue temping and wait to see if AF shows to take another hpt. Some people are able to get +

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Registered: 02-04-2004
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 6:36pm
Unfortunately, torturing yourself by testing every single day won't change whether or not you're pg. It'll only make the reality that much harder to accept if you're not. We've been trying for 10 months now, so I already went through the obsession phase. Even last month, though, I found myself getting that way after I had an evap line. Argh!! There's not much a woman wouldn't do when she's ready
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Wed, 02-04-2009 - 1:15am

Thank you ladies for your wonderful advice. Since this morning, I have calmed down a bit, lol. I'm trying to stay hopefull. Today I did some shopping and it at times kept my mind off this stressful time. I had some cramps and a lot of bloating today (hoping they are signs) but it could also be AF warnings which I'm hoping she does not show.


Tomorrow will be 13dpo and I will test again. I know I'm crazy, but I guess I turned into poas chick daily. I took my temperature at around 9:00pm just to see where I was at and it was 98.5. I'm hoping it stays around the same tomorrow morning and does not go down. Should I have a temp drop tomorrow, what will that mean? Will my chance still be good?


Please keep me in your thoughts and wishes tonight. I'm hoping to see my BFP tomorrow morning ahhh, (fingers crossed).


Baby Dust to us all ladies, lets get our BFP for 2009!!!