frustrated

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frustrated
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Sun, 10-30-2011 - 4:23pm

so today my husband and i are on a very different page, which is annoying. we have been trying but not very hard, so i thought i would try a little harder this month by initiating BD more often so when it came to OV it wouldn't be unusual, well he thinks i do it at the most odd times when we are trying to go to bed or he is almost asleep, i think he doesn't want to do it eve during the week, i know he works and so do i but if i dont initiate at night he will just fall asleep and if we go on that survey on ivillage on how many times you bded before conieving which is like over 100 times we will never concieve if we realy on him being ready to BD, which would be like 6 times a month if im lucky, i guess im not only complaining about it about concieving but for just our sex life too. just frustrated and worried it will never happen...

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Registered: 03-28-2010
In reply to: luvaff
Tue, 11-01-2011 - 1:30pm

I can soooooo relate to that!!

Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend

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Registered: 08-03-2011
In reply to: luvaff
Mon, 10-31-2011 - 9:52pm

I hate TTC sex and can definitely relate in a way. DB thinks I use him for his sperm. He also would like me to initiate BD more, so I think I am going to work on that more this upcoming cycle. Try BDing as soon as he gets off work if that's a possibility? That's what I like to try and do. We don't have any children yet (not sure if you do) so we don't have anything else to worry about at the time. I think it's actually the perfect time to BD. He always likes BD in the mornings though, which I am not a fan of I am *not* a morning person! Haha.