Fun Poll: Dont read if your shy : )

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Fun Poll: Dont read if your shy : )
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Thu, 08-28-2003 - 5:29pm
Sence TTC what have you done to spice things up in the bd department? Dont be shy. include video tapes, toys positions etc. We have tried new positions. Me on top facing his feet. i thought wierd but he likes it. i prefer on top facing him, its more intamite. but what ever gets him in the mood:) lol

Angela now blushing.

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Thu, 08-28-2003 - 5:53pm
Heehee...Dh and I have always been pretty crazy and we haven't really tried anything new since we've only been TTC for a week now, LOL. Dh loves the position you're talking about, I think it's called the "reverse cowgirl". I'm up for (almost) anything so I'm curious to see what other people write- if they're not too shy, lol. Also, TMI here, but I have trouble O'ing (not the kind most often talked about here) so we're always lookign for helpful hints. :-S
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Thu, 08-28-2003 - 6:22pm
wow i didnt know it had a name. DH will like that. I also have a little trouble w/ the other O(not eggie) so some ideas would be great. :)

Angela

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Thu, 08-28-2003 - 6:30pm
Oh my so many things I have tried so far. Yeah my guy like me facing his feet style too. But I enjoy the position when you laying on your side and he raise your leg up and gets on top of you like the missionary position but your just on your side. Try that one. :)
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Thu, 08-28-2003 - 8:52pm
Isn't the reverse cowgirl making those little swimmers have to work too hard for TTC?
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Thu, 08-28-2003 - 9:14pm
That's how I got PG the 1st time. LOL


Julie

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Thu, 08-28-2003 - 9:39pm
Forgive me if I'm sending this reply twice... having stupid computer problems.

So, for all you ladies having "O" difficulties...

I use to have an unbelievably hard time reaching my "O", until my DH got me a book. It was Valentines Day, two years ago, and he got me a book and lots of toys, lubes, attachments... and other things too. I was so embarrased, but "OMG" has it helped! The book is called "How to Have an Orgasm.... As Often As You Want" by Rachel Swift. I would highly recommend this! (I never realized how hard it was on my DH when I didn't O too)

DH read the book with me and had lots of "hands on" experience with the exercises in the book. It was great for both of us. It really spiced up our sex life too! Now I can reach an O absolutely every time.. with ease. It's amazing!

lots of fun to you all!

Cathy

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Thu, 08-28-2003 - 10:28pm
I really like the "reverse cowgirl" personally! It's one of those "celebration" type positions, you pull it out on special occasions. Kinda like a tux ;) Usually it's me on top, but with TTC we're making sure to get a lot of practice with him on top. The side one with him on top sounds interesting, we may have to try that. Boy is this board educational!

Karla

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Thu, 08-28-2003 - 11:16pm
OK girlies w/ O problems! try this: you on the bottom, with a pillow under your hips...

OR if you're feeling flexible, you on the bottom, your ankles on his shoulders (or hooking your knees around his elbows works well too, with less flexing)

but, those up there will help with the whole g-spot O :D SOOO cool, and so much different than clitoral O. (also, these are reccommended positions for TTC, since the spermies pool right at the cervix- just hand out on your back for a while after, and voila!)

other than that, for you on top, just be sure to get that clitoris into the action! (may be hard to do with the "reverse cowboy" lol, but hey, worth a shot!

there's another version of that half-side-lying one... you lay on your back, legs interlaced with his, he's on his side.... also GREAT when you're pg, cuz you're not straining anything, and he's not putting weight on that belly! (that's how we found it~ trying to make love w/ a giant belly! heehee)

ANYWAY, there's quite a few ideas... want more? i could come up with some!

bec

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Thu, 08-28-2003 - 11:39pm
Thanksz for the ideas and the book suggestion ladies! I'll take all the input I can get on this issue...it's becoming more than frustrating to me now!
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Fri, 08-29-2003 - 4:40am
My DH and I are very experimental. I feel bad that I cannot be on top though. Unless it's me facing away from him. I have very bad knees and at the age of 24! They pop, stick, give out and have bad pain from when I used to run. So it's almost always him on top, I hear that helps for TTC.

Claire

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