he changed his mind???

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he changed his mind???
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Wed, 07-15-2009 - 9:40am

So my husband and I have been trying for 2 months now.

Last week I was convinced I was pregnant, but it turned out I was wrong.

Suddenly, last night he tells me he doesnt want to try anymore and wants to put it off another year. I just rolled over and went to bed. Im not really sure what to say to him now. Has anyone ever been through this? FYI im 32, and we have been married 2 years.

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Wed, 07-15-2009 - 10:39am

argg I am sorry you are going through this.


I had this happen to me last month


I am 40 and have two girls from a previous marriage.

Shannon & Christopher Lilypie

Lilypie

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Wed, 07-15-2009 - 11:00am

We didnt speak this morning. I feel so betrayed.

I want to approach the subject with him tonight, but I am afraid of how to go about it. Sometimes, with him, when I push for something he just digs his heels in. He is a very stubborn man. sigh. I have no idea how to go about this. Part of me thinks if I just back off completely he will come around... but i dont know.




Edited 7/15/2009 11:08 am ET by kmcrain
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Wed, 07-15-2009 - 5:56pm
Hi there kmcrain....... sorry to hear about your dilemma. I know how that feels. But let me ask you somehing .......what makes you think its over for this cycle? According to one of your previos posts you said that your last period was on 6.28.09 right ? So just because you have not got a positive result doesn't necc mean that ur not pg.......maybe its just to early for postive results. my lmp is very similar to yours and I have been having all of those hint feelins that you've described and I tested yesturday and it was also negative but like I said it might just be too early for a positive. My last period was on the was on 6.23.09 and I think I od on the 8th or 9th of this month. Dh and I bd all the time so we can't count the days but definitly since the 4th and ever since that day we've bd without pulling out so I'm also on the 2wk wait. I know how disappointing the - 's can be but we have to keep are hopes up that things will happen for the best . Keep me posted I will love to know what the out come will be since we're in simular situations. God bless and baby dust to all of us!

Sunkysd!

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Thu, 07-16-2009 - 6:38am
I'm so sorry your husband had a change of heart. Maybe he's just scared. I know my husband was... and still is.
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