Help...new here :)

I don't put too much stock in this, but do think it's fun.

Try this lunar calendar. It takes your birthday & breaks it down for you...

http://www.chinesegenderchart.info/gender-calculator.php

There are other gender selection options if you're interested, like changing your diet & timing of bd. I wouldn't be going by online fertility calendars though. If you're serious about ttc during such small windows (when the calendar says you'll have a girl), then you should use opk's to tell you when you're fertile.