How did you know?

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Registered: 09-05-2003
How did you know?
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Sat, 09-20-2003 - 2:49pm
hi, i am not sure if this is the right place for this question but i was just wondering how you knew when you were "ready" to try for a baby.

we have discussed it but i am just so nervous!

do you think that if I really was ready for it I would be less nervous?

I know this is a strange question but it has been nagging away at me...

Fernmay

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Registered: 09-03-2003
In reply to: fernmay
Sat, 09-20-2003 - 2:55pm
There is really no positive sign from above, I guess it can be described as a feeling. You are with someone you love, you are happy and suddently it just feels right to have a child together to complete "the picture". As for your question about being nervous, YES it is totally normal. You can be sure you want to try to have a baby but still feel scared at all the changes within your body and your life.

I'd say that if you are thinking about it and disussing it with DH it is a sign. Maybe the next step for you is simply to get off birth control and let nature takes it's course without really trying to conceive like crazy.

Good luck!

Patricia

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