I'm probably not one too comment I guess because my first pregnancy happened after 3 months and we weren't trying at all. This time after this last cycle ended with an early loss I guess my perspective has changed. I UNDERSTAND how hard it is too wait and wait and get excited (when being late) and then be let down. And I know month after month after month can just be horrible too deal with. I haven't dealt with the length party of it as much I guess because I've only been trying for a few months. BUT and I know that it is easier said then done and when people tell me these things sometimes I just get so angry...but God has a plan and when the time comes and it is time then it will happen. I know some people don't believe in the same things I do but relying on the comfort of the board and believing that there is a reason for all things and staying busy will get you through these hard months. GL and baby dust and all the best too you. I hope you get your BFP sooner then later and stay on and be with us:)
Thank you both for your quick and meaningful responses. I know there are many like me - it's just nice to hear people's perspective on how they deal with it.
I definitely need too start taking care of myself. I haven't been. I think especially the last week or so because I'm sad and I guess didn't think I would feel this bad. But up on the horse again and off too babyland hopefully soon. GL to you and *big hugs*
I agree it's difficult to be motivated when you're down - I know just how you feel with that. tonight i'd rather drink a bottle of wine than go running like i normally do. i feel better, however, knowing there are people like you out there going through similar experiences. I hope that
Ups and downs indeed! Thanks for the advice - already I feel better just having someone to share my frustration with. I may try charting and look into joining a group on this site. I'm 34 years old, TTC#1,
Last month mine was 4 days late.
~Sylvia
*hugs*
Jenny
Thank you both for your quick and meaningful responses. I know there are many like me - it's just nice to hear people's perspective on how they deal with it.
I definitely need too start taking care of myself. I haven't been. I think especially the last week or so because I'm sad and I guess didn't think I would feel this bad. But up on the horse again and off too babyland hopefully soon. GL to you and *big hugs*
Jenny
Maybe you should try charting.
~Sylvia
I'm so sorry AF showed.
Ups and downs indeed! Thanks for the advice - already I feel better just having someone to share my frustration with. I may try charting and look into joining a group on this site. I'm 34 years old, TTC#1,