I am going to rip my hair out.

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Registered: 08-03-2011
I am going to rip my hair out.
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Thu, 09-29-2011 - 8:21pm

So my temp tanked this morning with my BFN staring me straight in the face. I got ready to start my day, put a pad on, and went about my business. After running around all day, and going fishing in the evening with DB, I was sure by nighttime AF would have found me. And... NOTHING!

The weirdest thing is, I don't even feel my period coming. Feel free to look at my chart (click on the ff ticker in my signature), I am super confident about my O date. If anything, I feel super weird. I still have extremely sore bbs, and the past few days I have been flat out EXHAUSTED and on top of that I have now had bouts of nausea since late last night! The future MIL is cooking *all* of my favorite things for dinner tonight and now I have to find a way to force everything down, because the last thing on my mind right now is eating.

What is going on? Should I be worried? Is this the clomid? Last month, it extended my LP by one day. But now it's added three extra days?! :smileymad:

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Registered: 09-19-2011
Thu, 09-29-2011 - 8:55pm
:( Boo. Lex I'm still holding out hope that we'll be due date buddies. I still say, wait until you get a BFP or a period. Until you get a period, you can't say you aren't pregnant. You probably ovulated later than you thought. I broke down and tested tonight. Got a BFP (story below in our 1WW thread). I will keep my eyes out for your BFP. Fingers crossed!!!!
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Thu, 09-29-2011 - 9:39pm
Sorry you're being thrown for a loop! I looked at your chart, are you 16 dpo today then? The longer luteal phase really is confusing. Your O day looks right, nice post-O temps. They say if your temps stay above coverline for 18 days you are almost assuredly pregnant, so I guess at least you'll have an answer soon. Those are definately some symptoms you have going on, I hope your body's doing some implanting! If it makes you feel any better, which I'm sure it won't, I feel like I'm about to rip my hair out too....today is just one of those days where I can't stop asking myself when the heck am I going to be pregnant?! Hang in there, girl, I hope you get good news soon.
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Fri, 09-30-2011 - 3:41am
Oh no Lex. Its such a rollercoaster isnt it? My chart is all over the place. I went UP by 0.01 degrees today and still no sign of AF. Blah. At this stage I just want AF to arrive so I can start thinking about the new cycle.
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Registered: 08-03-2011
Fri, 09-30-2011 - 8:20am
Well after all my ranting and raving, lol, she showed up this morning.

Soccergirl & Cait- I totally understand both of your frustrations as well. I don't know why it is taking me so long to get pregnant. And I also hate when AF takes her sweet time arriving because I know I'm out and need to just move on to the next cycle. I hope we get our BFPs soon, ladies!

And Maybe, congrats on your BFP! Even though I already congratulated you in our 1WW post I just wanted to wish you a happy and healthy 9 months!