i don't know what to do

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Registered: 06-05-2009
i don't know what to do
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Fri, 06-05-2009 - 1:01pm

hello so I have a question as well as I need the advice you gals can give me so I’ll tell a short form story of from when to now..


me an my boyfriend have been trying to conceive since jan/4/09 an here I am still not
we've tried every month, we have had sex on the 3day rule an every day rule as well as every other day, sadly still nothing.


an on may 14/09 I had the most painfulness period I have ever had the pain made me cry I didn’t want to do anything an if I were to rate the pain from 1-10 it would have been past 10, normally my period pain I’d rate that a 9.5 with those I can still move an I just take something for the pain an rest an I’d be fine, but the ones with may I couldn’t sleep cause they hurt so much an I was in so much pain that pain killers didn’t even work an the flow I had move blood clots then normally an the flow might have been a ill less an not so heavy..


an my period last 7 days


an I don’t really know when I ovulate an my cycle lasts due to online calculators an that’s what I’ve been using ago if one of you gals is good with understanding the ovulation timing hopefully you can help me


but I think mine is between 28-33days


so now I have a Question what do you think I should do? which will help me into conceiving yes I do know everywoman is different,


also as far as I know my family has no problems with conceiving although my mother had 3 misscaages before me,


an I only weight 85 lbs an I am 5"0-5"1 tall

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-10-2005
Fri, 06-05-2009 - 9:51pm

Textbook ovulation is day 14 of a 28 day cycle.

Expecting

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-07-2009
Sat, 06-06-2009 - 10:37am

I know it's though, but try not to get discouraged.