I just want to cry

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Registered: 06-06-2003
I just want to cry
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Wed, 01-28-2009 - 4:23pm

My husband and I have 2 children (one conceived and one adopted). The kids are now 4 and 3 but I want another one. My husband is fine with 2 but said he would also like 3 (He also told me before we got marries that he wanted 3 children).

Recently I had 4 failed IVFs and he wants to wait to continue trying (adoption/ donor egg until we buy a house. Hopefully that will be this year but who knows when we will find a house we like. I want to cry because we are both 37 years old and our kids are getting older. I don't see why building our family further needs to be put on hold:( We could be waiting for over a year to find a house and then the time to go through the adoption or donor process. He doesn't seem to want to understand that everything takes a while.

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Registered: 01-23-2009
Wed, 01-28-2009 - 4:30pm

I'm sorry you are going through this.

~Marielle~

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Thu, 01-29-2009 - 11:50am

(((HUGS))) I agree with the pp, you need to sit down with him and