I think I'm saying good-bye....(tears,m)

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Registered: 03-27-2003
I think I'm saying good-bye....(tears,m)
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Thu, 03-27-2003 - 5:00am
Girls, I am in tears right now...I somehow didn't realize the board was going to change, I mean, I thought some things would be changed, but not that THE BOARD would change...I can't even find my message from yesterday or what anyone wrote me. I don't understand the set up. I liked the old way! I can't just scan what people have written, and that sucks. I feel like I've lost all of you friends, because I can't find you on this stupid board!

I just don't have the heart or skill to putter here looking for the messages from yesterday, and as I usually can only post in the mornings, my mornings, I depend on the archives. I DID find them, but I couldn't make heads or tails of them.

Aside from that, it's been a year that we've been trying, and I am expecting AF today (here's my chart, if that works) http://www.FertilityFriend.com/home/18a40 and I guess this is maybe the time to go. Believe me, I really don't want to, but right now I just am so upset about the board, I feel cut off from you all and I just want to give up. You have all been so wonderful, and I love you though I#ve never met you. :) I wish you all the best, and BFPs in the near future. I'm going to miss you!

(((((((hugs)))))))

Jolene (not expecting to be back, but PMS may be at work)

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Thu, 03-27-2003 - 10:11am
Oh Jolene dont leave you would get use to it. I wish they was some way we could complain about this to Ivillage because I hate it too.

Please stay, we will all get through this

Imani

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 03-27-2003 - 9:49am
I'm so sorry you feel that way although I am in the same boat. Take care of yourself and don't get too down.
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Thu, 03-27-2003 - 8:55am
(((Jolene))), I hope that the board change, sucky that it is, does not drive you away-I hope that things will get easier. I agree that this outline form is better than the folders.

But I understand if you feel like for other reasons or other reasons you need to take a break, though I will miss you and hope you'll keep us posted occasionally. I do think you need to do what is right for you. I am sorry this journey has been too long.

Well, I want to say don't go, but I want you to do what you need to do. If you go, we'll miss you a lot.

Be well. Big hugs, and take care.

E
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Thu, 03-27-2003 - 6:40am
Hey Jolene - hang in there sister. It may take a few days to figure out the best way to post here, but we'll work something out. Heck with all the TTC stuff we've learned, how hard can this be?

I am really sorry to see your temp drop, I know how devastating it can be. GL next cycle (you certainly deserve a BFP already) and big ((((hugs)))),

Joan

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Thu, 03-27-2003 - 6:38am
((((((((Jolene)))))))))) I am so sorry. I hope that if AF does find you today that she is kind and that this is the last time you see her in a long long time. I understand your frustration with the new board. It is frustrating me as well. Don't give up just yet though. We will miss you!

Hugs,

Sara

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Thu, 03-27-2003 - 6:28am
Aww Jolene I am so sorry about the temp drop, hugs girl it is getting hard to keep my chin up too. I am sure that we will get the hang of this new board soon and I agree right now it looks bad and hard to understand. But I found you and your post. If you take a break I understand since I have had to do so myself too many times. I hope AF is good to you and its a good little break from the stress.

((((Hugs))))

Allison

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Thu, 03-27-2003 - 5:47am
Don't go!!! It's going to be a huge adjustment for all of us. I know exactly what you mean - I'm not one for change either. But we can be cycle buddies again, if AF arrives for you today! I need my competitor!

Please don't give up! You will be missed terribly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

(((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))

~ Rebecca

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Thu, 03-27-2003 - 5:23am
Don't leave yet....Go to the tan box where the board name is listed Trying to Conceive.. click on the link outline view which is under the search box...it at least makes it easier to read all the replies. I agree it's confusing..but see if this helps. Don't leave us..we'll miss you.

Nancy

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 03-27-2003 - 5:15am
Why can't I put a title on this message? Anyway, I wanted to just update what I wrote--I tried one last time and was able to find the correct archives. However, I really can't justify all the time I would have to spend on the board if I stay here--I only get the heading "sisters of irregularity", for example, and have 75 messages to click through. How do I know which ones I want to read? It is simply far too timeconsuming and I don't have a cheap connection (plus, someone might like to call!) so I can't spend that much time online. It looks as though I really have to give you up. And I am really sorry to do so.

~Jolene