I want another baby he doesn't and .....
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| Wed, 08-06-2003 - 10:50pm |
Well 8 months ago my hubby's friend asked us about having another one and to my shock my hubby says he didn't want any more kids at all, I later let him know that this bothered me and that I still wanted one. Well I am not taking birth control and we don't use any protection but all of a sudden my hubby stopped having sex with me after that conversation for months and it has been so infrequent since like once every 2 months.
I have an awesome hubby except for the not wanting a baby part, and we had a moment last year in October where I was 8 days late and then one morning I woke up to AF or a possible miscarriage as my doctor explained. My hubby acted excited then about the possiblity of another baby and said it was sad when we discovered it wasn't going to happen. I don't know what to do about the situation because I married this man believing we would have at least one child together and I am craving motherhood in the worst of ways.

So you have another talk, be blunt,ask about the lack of sex etc. But you ultimately have to be prepared with again hearing an answer that you do not want to hear-that he doesn't want children. Then you have to ask yourself even tougher questions, can I still focus on having a happy marriage without children? Unfortunately none of us can answer that for you, I wish it was that easy. Just know I am here for you. Please let me know how it goes....