Making BDing fun again....
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Making BDing fun again....
| Wed, 02-29-2012 - 2:30am |
Does anyone else find that BDing has started to become a chore. We are trying to BD every other day and every day around the days that I should be ovulating. I've stopped using FF for the last month for so because it was just becoming to overwhelming, I would sit and over analyze everything.
But now BDing has become a chore. It's rarely fun, and I just want it to be over and done with. Having a two year old doesn't help. I feel like we have to sneak around and BD so late so that DS doesn't hear or walk in. I'm not trying to be a Debbie downer I am just not sure how to make thing fun again.
Any ideas?
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It's not easy to have the energy when you are trying to get in the mood late at night. Can you set the alarm before you son's normal time to get up and try to sneak some in? Have you tried doing a date night with just the two of you to work on reconnecting again? It's probably good that you stopped FF, it's hard to BD on a schedule, both of you probably feel stresses over it. I would also suggest not BDing every day if it's turning into a struggle. (((HUGS))
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I doubt that your son would hear you. Is he still in a crib? How often does he wake up at night?
I'll have to read the article above, and try some new things.
Thanks Ladies