m/c? Please help!

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Registered: 08-09-2003
m/c? Please help!
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Sun, 10-12-2003 - 10:27am
help--I am so distraught about this!

I posted a few days ago about my very faint positives at 12, 13, and 14 dpo--wondering if this was for real. I am now 16 dpo (later than ever) with no AF, but this morning I got a BFN. I had some really bad cramps overnight and this morning my temp was down. Not below the coverline, but a LOT lower than it has been for over a week. My chart looks just like the beginning of a m/c chart in tcoyf. (Sorry I can't post it--I just do it on paper). No bleeding or spotting at all yet, just cramps.

I was going to go to the clinic for a test tomorrow morning. I hope I still have a reason to do so by then.

Thanks for any words of wisdom!

Cristina

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Registered: 07-31-2003
Sun, 10-12-2003 - 10:46am
Hi Cristina,

Did you test with the same brand HPT?

Dim

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Registered: 08-09-2003
Sun, 10-12-2003 - 11:00am
Yes, I got faint positives with both fre and ept (though darker with fre). And this morning I tested with fre again.

Cristina
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Sun, 10-12-2003 - 1:01pm
Cristina,

I don't want to alarm you but it is a possibility of a M/C. The reason why I am saying this is that I got faint positive at 14DPO and two days later it was negative. I had done a BHCG on DPO14 and it was 27. Two days after, when I had the negative, BHCG was 12. If I hadn't tested on dpo14 with HPT I wouldn't have known that I was PG. My Dr. said I had an early M/C on sept 19 2003 (at 4weeks 4 days). I think you should still go to your appointment on Monday so that you know what is going on with you. I hope for the best for you. I hope I am wrong!

Dim

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Registered: 08-09-2003
Sun, 10-12-2003 - 4:35pm
Yes, the bleeding has started. Looks like it's over for another month. I'm going to make an appointment as it's been a year now.

Cristina
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Registered: 07-31-2003
Sun, 10-12-2003 - 4:56pm
Good luck Cristina,

Dim
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Registered: 08-09-2003
Sun, 10-12-2003 - 8:19pm
Dim,

Thank you so much for all of your responses. I am feeling a little better now, partially because I am now allowing myself to take something for these cramps, now that I know it's over. I want to start trying again right away, which as far as I know is ok given how early this m/c was (16 dpo). I think I may have read somewhere that your chances are even better right after a m/c. Has anyone else heard this?

Cristina
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Registered: 07-31-2003
Mon, 10-13-2003 - 12:19am
I heard about that but nothing was proven. I think you can start right away anyways because it was quite early. My dr. told me that I can start trying right away.

Best of luck,

Dim
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Registered: 10-11-2003
Mon, 10-13-2003 - 9:48am
well i had written another post saying not to worry but i didn't read all of the posts yet. i'm so sorry. you almost made it though! so now you know what you were doing right you can do it again this month! God said if i have Faith the size of a mustard seed i can move a mountain! so i will pray that this be your month!


Edited 10/13/2003 9:59:38 AM ET by car_jac