More sexual content in this post, sorry

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Registered: 09-19-2003
More sexual content in this post, sorry
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Wed, 09-24-2003 - 11:34am
Ok, this is kind of embarrasing. Normally, I have no trouble achieving the big O during BD (and I don't mean ovulation). I have read that having an O can help push the sperm in the right direction. So, lately I have been putting extra effort into O'ing during BD'ing. However, all these extra thoughts and thinking about ttc has made it difficult if not impossible to reach the O. I know I should just relax but it is so hard to clear my head now that BD'ing has become so purposeful. Any ideas?

-Erin

TTC#3, C1, CD8
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Registered: 05-14-2003
Wed, 09-24-2003 - 11:44am
I know what you mean, I have that problem too sometimes. Just dont think about it. When you know youare going to bd that day think about it all day and get yourself worked up and then when you finally do you will explode. I like on top so I have my o on top and then let DH o right after me while he is on top so that I can lay there when it is done. Just dont concentrate on it during bd, do what comes natural. HTH

Oli

Katie


Married to highschool sweetheart since 8-12-02


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Registered: 08-21-2003
Wed, 09-24-2003 - 11:52am
Hi Erin,

I know exactly what you mean...it is hard to keep the romance alive when you are worrying about CM, CP and Oing. My DH had gotten the idea in his head that we can only BD if we think the timing is right for conception...I just wanted to shake him and tell him that we used to do it for fun..LOL! So, now when we start getting too focused on conceiving, I set up a date nite..we go out, see a movie or have dinner and let things happen instead of making things happen. Hope this helps you too!

Does orgasm really help achieve conception? I have been curious about that one for a while.

:) Alicia

TTC#1, C#1, CD#60