My husband says he wants me to stop taking BC. Is he ready for kids or is this a new turn on?
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|Tue, 03-13-2012 - 1:14pm|
About two months ago my husband came home around midnight after he 'd been out with the guys and woke me up to let me know he was ready for kids and I could stop taking my birth control. He said the guys got to talking and they told him he wasn't getting any younger and no time would ever be "perfect" and he decided they were right. I kinda blew this off considering I was half asleep and he had been drinking a little. But the topic has come up several times since then with him asking me why I'm still taking my pills. What confuses me this topic always comes up when he's drowsy or during sex. Is this just a new turn on for him? During sex it obviously turns him on of the idea of him getting me pregnant. But its the times he ask me when he's just drowsy that confuses me as to whether not he's serious. Your probably wondering why I don't just ask him? Well at that the current moment both of our work schedules are hectic. When we do get to see each other we are usually just trying to wind down from work and soon have to go to bed. Its not a conversation I want to have around midnight when we have to be at work at 5:45 AM. So I'm waiting when we can really have a GOOD long talk. But since its driving me crazy I wanted to