needing some advice BAD

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Registered: 12-21-2008
needing some advice BAD
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Fri, 01-09-2009 - 11:25am

me and my DH have decided to TTC again. He wants to let it naturally occur. I understand that, but i dont want to spend the next 8 months "trying". I know when i O and everything.


I have a few reservations about being PG while its winter out. I have a habit of falling down when its snowy and i dont want to be really fare and almost due when its cold and wintery.


So do i let him think its naturaly and track my info and get us pg, or do i just let it happen and not keep up on it??


I so want to be a mother again. I missed all the holidays with my first daughter, if we get PG on my next O then the baby will be here just in time or Halloween which makes me really excited!

TTC again...

I love my Cowboy Hubby!! and my puppy!!

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Registered: 03-06-2007
Fri, 01-09-2009 - 11:47am
I say let him think it happened naturally. Guys usually perform better when they aren't under pressure anyways. ;)

Patrice - Mommy to Wyatt 11/12/07

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Patrice - Mommy to Wyatt 11/12/07 & Madelyn 11/29/09

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Registered: 01-04-2009
Fri, 01-09-2009 - 11:48am

Some men are funny when it comes to talking about our cycle and stuff like that....they would just rather not know. If it is something you both really want but he doesnt want the "stress" of really trying....you can do 2 things...go along with him (which I so would not be able to do...lol)....or just not tell him what you are doing. I don't think there is anything wrong with keeping them in the dark about certain things....only when you both would be happy with the result :). Go with your heart...maybe just do a few extra things to increase your chances....if you already know when you O you could just go with the OPK's just to be sure and BD a couple times around that time.


Best of luck :)....


TTC #2


Cycle #1


2 dpo

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Registered: 03-25-2004
Fri, 01-09-2009 - 12:05pm
I agree.

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Registered: 04-18-2003
Fri, 01-09-2009 - 12:40pm

You can't be blamed for knowing your body.

Erin

McKenna 7 yrs

Liam 10 months

Baby EDD Nov 30

 

 

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Registered: 03-10-2005
Fri, 01-09-2009 - 5:50pm

I agree with PPs.

Expecting

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Registered: 12-21-2008
Tue, 01-13-2009 - 3:03pm
Thank you all so much for all your help. You are all alot of help
TTC again...

I love my Cowboy Hubby!! and my puppy!!

<a href="http://lilypie.com"><img src="http://bd.lilypie.com/w1j8m5.png" alt="Lilypie Expecting a baby Ticker" border="0"&nb