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Sun, 04-13-2003 - 7:20pm
Hello everyone,

I am new to this message board. I looking for people that are going through the same situation as me. I am 26 years old and my husband and I am are trying to concieve. I had a miscarriage on 9/27/02..and today would have been my due date. So its been a hard day, actually its been a difficult last few months. People keep telling me to get over it, you will have another..but they dont know that. But we are finally ready to start trying again. I have PCOS and without medication I norally dont have an AF. Although the past 2 months I have been on nothing and AF just magically showed up, so I am starting to have more faith. So last week we started the Clomid again.

I am looking for peole that understand what I am going though. A support system, someone to talk to about everything. Hope to hear from you.

email melissarob2@hotmail.com

Take care

Melissa

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Registered: 03-31-2003
In reply to: az_daisy_26
Sun, 04-13-2003 - 11:04pm
(((HUGS))), Melissa. This is a great place for you to be. There are lots of women who can sympathize with some or all of what you are going through. Although I don't have PCOS and haven't had a miscarriage, I do understand how it feels to have people telling you all the wrong things about trying to conceive in a bad attempt to be helpful. My personal favorite is "You just need to relax and it will happen." Well, geez, thanks. That helps SOOO much! Anyway, I am sure that it will happen for you again, but that in no way diminishes the pain and fear that goes along with what you have been through. Hang in there and welcome to the board. I think it will be a big help for you. It has been for me. -Anne
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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: az_daisy_26
Mon, 04-14-2003 - 12:38am
Hi hun! I can't say that I've been in your shoes, but I do know the pain of loss. It is a very good sign that you've had AF for the last couple of months! Do you chart basal body temps at all? That could be a lot of help too.

Good luck and hopefully your fears about having a baby will be proven wrong.

-Robyn

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: az_daisy_26
Mon, 04-14-2003 - 3:58am
((((((((((Melissa))))))))))) So sorry to hear about your loss.

I think you have really come to the right place--this board is a great support system. I wish you all the best, and welcome to the board!

~Jolene