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| Wed, 07-23-2003 - 4:50pm |
Hi everyone my name is Dana and my husband and I are TTC for the first time this month. I am supposed to O Thursday so we have been BDing for the past 4 days. I am really struggling with trying not to think about it constantly. How do you just relax? I am constantly on websites here at work and always thinking about what I will do when I get pregnant. Honestly I don't know how long it will take I am praying that it won't take long but you never know. I guess we are just excited but I don't want to get stressed out because I have heard that doesn't help. Also I don't want the BD to become like a machine. Any advice on how to relax if there is any would be wonderful.
Adios,
Dana

I know exactly what you are talking about. I consider myself, mildly obsessed. Although this month, with charting my temps, I seem to have relaxed a little bit. Kinda like I have inside knowledge & am doing something everyday.
Other than that, I get on here to relax. Just jump on in with questions! Hope your stay is short & sweet!
Teera
I am new here and also trying for ttc#1. I agree with Teera, charting and this message board has help to relax me some. You can't help but to think about just about every moment of every day, whether you are awake or sleeping. I am 6dpo and dreamed last night AF came. I woke up in a cold sweat and of course I had to check to see if my dream was true. Thank goodness it wasn't. WHEW! That was a close one. Also, if you haven't read Taking Charge of Your Fertility, by Toni Weischler (sp?) you might want to read it. I am finding it very informative and it also makes you feel like you are doing something instead of just sitting and waiting.
I am sending you ++++++++++++ vibes.
Logan
ttc#1, c#6, cd#24, 6dpo
Good luck to all of you.
Dana