Newbie needs help

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Registered: 07-03-2005
Newbie needs help
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Tue, 01-06-2009 - 1:31am

Hello,


I'm a newbie here and I desperately needs some advice.


I already have a beautiful 2 year old girl and now trying for a 2nd baby since the past 5 months but with no good news yet. For the 1st baby, I didn't have any problem because she was conceived at the 1st try. But for the 2nd one, I've tried everything...good diet, cutting out coffee, I don't even smoke or drink...I've tried charting and following it religiously but nothing yet. I only know one problem, that is, even though I badly wanted a 2nd baby, I'm too tired to 'make' it :P I always feels very tired so at night, the bed always looks tempting enough...too sleep on :P I'm a working mother by day, and I do laundries & cook dinners when I got home, and with a 2 year old at your hands, I guess you know how I feel when I could finally lie down on that bed :) DH does helps around but still, even after a whole day off from work and just staying at home to rest, I still feel drained out for it, thus we could only make use like 1 or 2 days in my fertile days for baby-making.


Any tips to make me more energized or at least to keep me awake? I would really appreciate it.


Thanks.


-Diana-

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-25-2008
In reply to: giantz
Tue, 01-06-2009 - 2:19am
Since the bed looks tempting enough to sleep in and not BD. Maybe you should try a different place in the house to BD in. I understand about working and then coming home and cooking cleaning been there done that you have to make time for yourself and DH. I am ttc #3 and its been 5 months for me the first 2 it was a one month try. But good luck with the TTC