no o?

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Registered: 02-19-2002
no o?
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Mon, 09-08-2003 - 8:48am
Hi everyone,

Could someone take a look at my chart and tell me what you think is going on? I don't think I O'ed this cycle. Last month my cycle was 34 days and the two before that were about 42 days(didn't chart them) Have had lots of CM for over a week, some yellow, some clear. Also some cramps on and off...

http://www.FertilityFriend.com/home/26ffc

I feel really sad today :( I guess I just want someone to tell me it'll be ok, and I'll be fine and really mean it. DH doesn't understand, and everyone else says you'll be fine, you're young, and healthy. I just want to cry. Sorry for the sob fest...I just know that you guys are great and have helped before.

My other question is how long to wait for AF before going to the doc? I feel really anxious b/c 5 close friends are PG, and a girl that sits beside me at work, so that seems to be all I hear about!!! It's hard to get away from it. But thanks in advance for the help......

~Suzy~

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Registered: 08-17-2003
In reply to: suziesponge
Mon, 09-08-2003 - 9:31am
I would realx and keep BDing . Are you sure you aren't PG. With al the cramping on and off and CM, etc.

I know women who were charting etc. and it was making them crazy and disappointed so they gave it up and just enjoyed TTC by Bding all the time. Easier said than doen probably because I don't know your history or how long you have TTC'ed. Anyway these women got PG when they stopped worrying about the exact O tiem and day.But again, I don't know your hostory.

Good luck. How long have you TTC and where are you in your cycle?

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Registered: 07-02-2003
In reply to: suziesponge
Mon, 09-08-2003 - 9:59am
(((((HUGS)))))))))Suzy~ I'm so sorry you're feeling this way and things are being difficult! I'm afraid to say that your chart is looking quite anovulatory. The temps are low- not as high as pg temps so I will disagree with the post above- I'm sure you aren't pg :o( How many cycles have you been TTC? With your chart looking as it does, it may be time to pay a visit and instigate some help from Dr? I think you may need assistance with "o"ing. Now- this is a VERY common and easily rectified thing, so please don't be discouraged!! Stand your ground with your Dr- if you want help then make him give it to you. We're here for you, and many in your same situation.

(((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))!!!!!

Tara

 

 Tara~ co-cl of Pregnant after TTC

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Registered: 02-19-2002
In reply to: suziesponge
Mon, 09-08-2003 - 10:12am
Hi,

We have been actively trying since July 1st, not long I know. I think I want to try not to chart, but I am obsessed, I tend to go overboard with these things. Just like when I was planning my weddding, couldn't stay off the wedding websites. Maybe I will try that. I think I do it b/c it makes me feel a little more in control to know what's going on. Thanks for the advice!!

Suzy~

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Registered: 02-19-2002
In reply to: suziesponge
Mon, 09-08-2003 - 10:43am
I was just thinking, I had a UTI on August 9th, and was antibiotics for 5 days, would that make a difference in my temps or Oing?

Thanks again!

Suzanne