Okay, So I'm new to the baby making

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Registered: 04-09-2003
Okay, So I'm new to the baby making
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Tue, 04-15-2003 - 11:07am
So, I'm new to the whole baby making scene. We aren't really TTC but no longer trying not to. I'm not charting temps or anything. (I actually think my DH would have a heart attack it I was) but I have some questions and no one really to ask so here I go. Sorry about the details probably to much info, but I don't know where to turn.

BDing in my house is very short lived. Is that going to be a problem? We haven't gotten to the stage where we will see any doctors yet, but I am concerned about it. It has never really been an issue for me because I have a very low sexual desire, but I'm afraid it may cause problems.

If someone could give me some insite, that would be wonderful.

Thanks

Jenni

ps Happy Tax Day :)

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Registered: 09-24-2002
Tue, 04-15-2003 - 11:52am
I'm not to sure what your asking but I think you are trying to tell us you dont BD much because you dont have the desire too. Just my opinion TTC is all about BDing and timing there lots of time when you need DH to BD on demand. The only thing I can suggested is you can chart and try to save all the BDing around O time. I'm not sure if DH would be up for that but its just a suggestion. Also I think you and DH should talk about ttc first before because he might find it weird that all of a sudden you want to BD more. I really dont know your situation but that's my two cents.

Wish you lots of luck and I hope all works out with you and DH

Welcome to the board I hope your time here is short but sweet

Imani


Edited 4/15/2003 12:25:11 PM ET by bklynfinest77

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 04-15-2003 - 12:19pm
Hi there! Do you mean by B'ding is short lived' that the act itself? If so, I hear ya! My dh is quick, which suits me just fine because, like you, my sex drive is not high. There is no problem with it being fast, as long as he actually makes his 'deposit' :D Let us know if we answered your question!

Stacey

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Registered: 04-09-2003
Tue, 04-15-2003 - 12:40pm
Thanks Stacey. That is exactly what I meant. Glad to know that everything should be okay and that other people have the same issues as me.

Thanks

Jenni

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 04-16-2003 - 12:12pm
Hi Jen. I'm new to this whole thing too, so new that I'm not sure what "BD" stands for!?! I'm probably going to feel pretty stupid when I figure it out. =) Don't hold it against me! =)

Jen

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Registered: 09-24-2002
Wed, 04-16-2003 - 12:19pm
It means Baby dancing if you lokk down the board there a thread that says "new ttc board" it has lots of info about the board and it also have abbre.

Hope that help

Imani

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 04-16-2003 - 2:59pm
Thanks! =)

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