To Orgasm or Not to Orgasm???

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Registered: 04-17-2003
To Orgasm or Not to Orgasm???
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Mon, 10-06-2003 - 8:21am
Hi ladies,

I'm just curious if anyone knows if having an orgasm increases, decreases, or is indifferent - your chances of getting pg.

I know when I do, my body creates a whole lot more fluid than when I don't. Is that fluid helpful or harmful to sperm?

Also, does your cervix or positioning of anything important move when you have an orgasm?

I've been avoiding them for some reason and so I am really getting the raw end of the deal... unless of course, I do end up pg! :-)

TIA.

Bethanee ttc3 c4 cd18/28 AFNW 10-16

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Registered: 10-07-2003
Thu, 10-09-2003 - 3:38pm
ive read your not supposed to have one before the man if u want a boy it was on a web md so it never said u cant have one.
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Registered: 07-09-2003
Thu, 10-09-2003 - 3:57pm
Ok ladys this is what I have heard. That it is ok and good to have an orgasm. But in my head Im not sure, because they say that you can do those kegel excersises to get the sperm out of you to get a good check on cm. And isnt orgasm and those kegals the same thing? wouldnt orgasm just push out the sperm? well thats just a thought in my head, Ive never heard that anywhere so Im sure its ok to have one. So by all means if you can, do it!!!!!!!!!!

And I have heard that to have a girl, have one and for a boy, dont. The orgasm fluid is tough on the sperm and the girl sperm are slow but tough. the boys are faster but not as strong and tough. I will try and check on the accuracy of this info and get back to ya.

good luck everyone

Angela

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Registered: 10-09-2003
Thu, 10-09-2003 - 4:03pm
Just to let you know.... For a boy you have an orgasm. For a girl...don't!

Orgasm never hurts to have if you are not trying a boy or a girl but just to have a heathly little one.

Good Luck!

Tamantha

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Registered: 05-14-2003
Thu, 10-09-2003 - 5:28pm
Here is how I feel- orgasmns can help, not a necessity.

As far as gender determination. There may be proof that you will MOREE LIKELY get a girl with an orgasm or without or whatever. However, it is just a slightly higher percentage. When it comes down to it, nothing can for sure determine it, God already has it figured out anyway. Besides that, it isnt uncommon for a man to have an imobile x or y chromosome meaning that he can only produce a boy or girl.

Katie


Married to highschool sweetheart since 8-12-02


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