OT-Advice Needed

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-03-2007
OT-Advice Needed
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Mon, 11-24-2008 - 8:40am

Hi there! I am needing some advice, I have a friend who I go to church with who has been trying to get pregnant for @ 18 months. They have been charting and temping and testing etc, My husband and I recently found out we were pregnant, we took more of a in God's time attitude and it happened right away, we are planning on telling our families on Thursday and everyone at church on Sunday.


How do I tell my friend, I know I probably need to tell her before Sunday. Thanks!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-08-2004
Mon, 11-24-2008 - 8:46am

I remember for me...I was excited about everyone else getting pregnant...I was very sad and frustrated with why we weren't...but it did happen in time...


it always happens in God's time..


hopefully your friend will still feel joy for you even though she will still be sad for herself

 


 

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-17-2004
Mon, 11-24-2008 - 9:26am

I've been in a similar situation and I recommend you telling her first before you make the big annoucement. That way she can handle the emotions that will come with it. Let's face it...she'll

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Shannon

Pregnant with #2
BFP on 11 DPO
HCG 17 DPO = 2,000
HCG 20 DPO = 10,979
HCG 23 DPO = 25,588 (u/s showed gestational sac)
27 DPO = u/s showed baby and hearbeat! YAY!