painful sex during o???

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Registered: 10-18-2011
painful sex during o???
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Tue, 11-15-2011 - 3:59pm
Have any of you ladies ever experienced painful sex during o? Last night hubby and I bd and part of the way through it became sort of painful. I apologize in advance if this is tmi but it really caught me off guard. I didn't know if cervix position during o could cause this or what. The last time I felt anything similar was when I was pregnant with ds (and I am 100% sure im not pregnant yet) during my pregnancy with ds when hubby and I had sex it felt like it was hitting something(cervix??). Any one know anything abt this or had this before?
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Registered: 08-27-2011
Tue, 11-15-2011 - 7:14pm

I don't know if this is tmi too, but in answer to your question, my husband is large, which is usually not a problem, but sometimes (during o, or close to AF) I get that same sensation that he is hitting something inside and it is extremely uncomfortable, usually if we change position in a way where I have more control, or just a different angle it fixes the situation.

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Registered: 10-18-2011
Tue, 11-15-2011 - 7:36pm
Ok it is comforting to know someone else experiences this. We adjusted to a few different positions and I agree when I was in control it wasn't painful because I knew how to maneuver to avoid pain. I didn't tell dh abt it because I didn't want to ruin the moment and im hoping it isn't an issue tonight.
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Registered: 03-01-2011
Wed, 11-16-2011 - 1:37pm
I've experienced discomfort too. I think it really depends on where the cervix is at the time. I've even had pink spotting when the cervix is low. I agree that changing position is the best option -especially when you can control the depth & such.

Happy pain-free bd'ing :)
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