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| Wed, 04-29-2009 - 7:29am |
Okay, so here goes! I had like four days last week in a row where I had EWCM. Is this normal? I haven't noticed it to last four days it normally is only a couple of days. Also, my cycles have been all off whack for the last few months so could this be the cause of the longer time for having fertile cm? I haven't temped this month b/c I lost my thermometer. LOL!
Also, my cycles have been lasting like 35-40 days. So, if we are trying to see if we are pg should we wait to test until after forty days or should we go ahead and test after 35 if no AF?
Just looking ahead and hoping for a BFP!
I also wanted to see if anybody else goes through this too. I found out in December that my sister was pg and she wasn't trying, her hubby is laid off, and they are living off of my parents. Then I found out a month before that a friend of mine is expecting and she is also living with her in laws and her hubby is working but they are struggling more than most. Then just this week I found out that TWO more of my friends, well one is a cousin, is PG and due in December. I am so having baby jealousy issues right now. I cried after I found out that they were pregnant. Instead of being excited for them I cried. I told my husband that I felt so mean and cruel to be crying because someone else was bringing life into this world. Have any of you ever expierienced this too? Please tell me I am not the only one. :)

Sorry i can't help with the EWCM but, I know how you feel when you hear that someone around you is preggo. I have been trying for some time now and get depressed when I hear about it. My DH came home and told me that a friend of ours is having an oops baby. They have one kid and then had sex once and BFP. He went on to tell me about the next friend having a baby and the last I knew was he didn't want one.
To place the icing on the cake there was a third friend. I just started cried and telling him that I didn't want to talk to him. He was shocked with my reaction. I told him that we were out and AF came that morning. So he said he understood but I am not sure about that.
I hope that this is your chance to say you have received your BFP.
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I don't know anything about the first issue.
Regarding the second issue though!
It is so hard sometimes to just deal with the feeling and emotions that come along with it. I was told last month that my HCG levels were super low and that probably meant that I had either a chemical pregnancy or it just did not stick. It's so hard sometimes to just keep smiling and say oh that's so great that YOU are pregnant, especially since you are so young, or your spouse is out of work, or you were not even trying. UGH! I know it sounds mean and I feel HORRIBLE when I feel this way but I do.
Another thing is that my hubby has a child from a previous marriage and so I know it isn't him, it's me. It is so hard to deal with all of the emotions that come with that too.
So goddess dragon, does your hubby not want kids at all or just not right now?
I'm sorry! It is so hard to deal with all of this in general.
You should rejoice in your abundance of EWCM! :o) It doesn't sound like anything is 'wrong', just that your body is producing lots of the fertile stuff. Take advantage of that and BD! Your fertile window should still be the same, regardless of when you O; however, with O-ing later, your body could be gearing up to O at multiple points thus causing the extra EWCM. Do you temp? Do you have a way of confirming if/when O occurred? That would help determine when you should poas. If you aren't certain when you O'd, I'd wait until CD40.
IKWYM about all the preggers around you...I don't know if I was just oblivious to babies and pg women before ttc, but I feel like they are just all over the place! I get the baby jealousy, too. At least we can commiserate together until we get our BFPs!
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DH would like to have kids. I think he is concerned that now I am unemployed. I still have medical insurance for a few more months before I have to start paying. Just when I think that he doesn't really want to keep TTC. He comes out with little comments about having a baby. He talks about our friends little ones with a big smile on his face.
We are going to his sisters wedding at the begining of July. I am going shopping for a dress this week. He made the comment that I should make sure that the dress has extra room in case we get preggo.
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Well here is to all of us getting our little bundles of joy this month. :)
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