Please help, I'm so confused(long vent)

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Please help, I'm so confused(long vent)
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Wed, 07-23-2003 - 3:27pm
I could really use some help.

Last cycle I had a chem preg. on 15 and 16 dpo of that cycle I tested with Clear blue and got BFN's, then on 17 dpo I got a BFP with Accuclear (it was faint) so when I got the BFP I looked at the first two tests and saw very faint lines were actually there.

well here is my problem. this cycle FF started out saying I Oed on CD28 so I made an appointment with my RE, he sent me for blood work on the 16th of july. well on the 17th of july FF changed my O to CD 32. So when i had the blood drawn I would only have been at 13 dpo, well the HCG level was almost 2, so the RE said I'm not preg. and to start Provera to induce my period. to make a long story short I never started the provera because I got busy with moving into our new house. today would be 20 dpo based on oing on cd32. But FF took away my o date and coverline so I gave up and stopped temping until I start my next cycle.

well I took a Clear blue easy test 2 days ago and again there is a very faint line. and my CP is going back up and my CM is extremly watery (it's uncomfortable).

I don't know maybe its just stress or maybe that faint line is real. I'm just so confused and I don't want to call my RE, because he might get mad at me for not starting my provera. I might just need someone to tell me I'm not insane at the moment.

well thank all for letting me vent. And anyone's opinion would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks

Joan

www.fertilityfriend.com/home/21c79


Edited 7/23/2003 3:32:47 PM ET by joanfeld

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Registered: 07-02-2003
Wed, 07-23-2003 - 4:37pm
Hi, Joan! Gosh, that is difficult! First off though....if your RE is getting mad at you- go somewhere else! You don't have to put up with that. It's your body and you make the final call on all decisions! Please don't ever forget that and never let them intimidate you like that. If you have hcg in your system then you will have a positive result- even faint on a test. Now, you could very well be having another chemical pg....how do you feel? Are you feeling any sypmtoms? Perhaps if you take another test to see if the line is getting darker that will be an indication if your levels are doubling. Really though...a line is a line and I think you need to get back into a Dr- if you are uncomfortable going to your RE find someone else. You should have a b/t done to be sure. They will also want on file if you're having another early m/c because that may be indicative of another issue. Your chart is a wee bit whacky-----doesn't truely look as if you've even "o"d????? It looks rather anovulatory to be honest, though if you are pg, you obviously have. Another thing is that if your count was 2 previously and you're not at all regular could it be that it was so early-not even 13dpo and this is the same pg sticking around?????? This is also something that needs to be checked incase a d&c is in order. I don't mean to scare you or jump to conclusions....I jsut think you need to go to the Dr.

*******STRONG BACKBONE*****vibes to you! Let us know what happens.

((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))

Tara

 

 Tara~ co-cl of Pregnant after TTC

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Registered: 07-21-2003
Wed, 07-23-2003 - 5:08pm
Joan:

Hi! I worked with Infertilty MD's for almost 6 years, ironic isn't it? And the one thing I have found to be true is right now you need to feel VERY comfortable with your RE and if you feel like he/she will be upset with you then you need to find a new RE. If you are getting those vibes, chances are the RE doesn't have a good "bedside manner" and your time with them as a patient will try your patiences and stress you out more.

Also, have you ever tried using Ovusoft instead of FF? Here is the link in case you haven't. http://www.ovusoft.com/cgi-bin/chart.pl/

Hope I helped and did not offend.

Take care and you are in my heart and prayers.

Logan

ttc#1, c6, cd24, 6dpo