PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

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Registered: 05-24-2009
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!
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Mon, 06-22-2009 - 9:37pm

well i am lossing hope this cycle big time. i had some cramping on my low left side so i took a test and BFN( probably to early) then i woke this morning to a huge temp drop and now that is what is making me think i a for sure out this month. my temps just do not seem to be in good placement this cycle to get a bfp. i am driving myself nuts because i am sure i o'ed cd21 but my tempes have not matched my cycle at all.

i could really use some opinions from others please

check out my chart ---->http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/273f46

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Registered: 03-11-2008
Tue, 06-23-2009 - 12:49pm

Hi! Seems a little early for af, perhaps you have not ovulated yet.


I see last cycle you O'ed on CD26...Could you be ovulating right now??


GL!

Rebecca-29 DH -31 DS -12 DD-2

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/22f7ac

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 06-23-2009 - 1:52pm

I'd say it's one of two things:


1) Implant dip.


2) I think this is most likely based on your temps - you are O'ing now.

 

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Registered: 05-24-2009
Tue, 06-23-2009 - 3:36pm

hi all thanks for the advice. well i am almost certain that i am not Oing now because none of my other signs add up to it lick cp/cf and temp. if i did o then i am sad because we missed our window of opportunity. my temp shot up today which i am crossing my fingers means baby got nice and snuggled in place but i cant help but not be excited because i tested again this morning and still BFN

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Registered: 02-04-2004
Tue, 06-23-2009 - 4:31pm

I noticed that you input your own O day. I'm curious what FF would say if you switch back to their default. Based on your temps and CM I'm a bit more inclined to think you O'd on CD 23, thus putting you at only at 6 DPO rather than 8. And, in which case, you would have timed BDing very well.


About the temp dip - it's important to keep in mind that one single temp dip (or rise, for that matter) doesn't necessarily mean anything. What you want to pay attention to is the trend, the pattern. If you saw a few days of declining temps, then you could potentially begin counting yourself out. But, the trend of your chart and your previous chart shows you should probably have at least a 12 day luteal phase.


HTH!

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Registered: 05-24-2009
Tue, 06-23-2009 - 4:49pm

than you for answering. i was thinking the same thing about the crosshairs so i do take them out everyday to see if ff will give me some but nope not once this cycle has ff given me any. the reason i ended up putting my own in is because of how my cp/cm were and how i was in such pain that day it just seemed to all go together.

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Registered: 06-18-2009
Tue, 06-23-2009 - 7:57pm
Just a though. Try dicsarding yesterday's temp and see if it give you some CH's. Hopefully that helps!

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Registered: 05-24-2009
Tue, 06-23-2009 - 11:35pm

yep that worked thank you it put my O at cd 23 shich is only 2 days after where i think it is so that is not bad and it put my cover live about where i thought it should be but now i am thinking we missed our opportunity because we only BDed the days leading up to o and not on o day or the day after

check out my chart ---->http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/273f46

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Registered: 02-04-2004
Wed, 06-24-2009 - 12:36am

Congrats on the CH's! From the looks of things

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