Possible or pms

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Registered: 11-03-2009
Possible or pms
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Tue, 11-03-2009 - 4:45pm

Hello ladies, I have not used a message bored in forever..So bare with me. lol
I am a mother of 3 and recently married in August. Anyway, I had my last period Oct 13th. We had sex on the 18th, 19th and 21st. With out any BC. That is before my ovulation. I am on a 28 day cycle. We had sex with withdraw method on the 24th/26th/27th (which we have done for 4 years now and HAS WORKED. (thought he might get laid off so decided to postpone baby making)

However, for the past 8days and continuing my breasts have been SUPER sore, and swollen (they are normally sore like 6 days before AF) I have noticed the blue vein thing, I have had cramping for 4 days now. Feel like I started run to the bathroom and nothing is there!! NOT TIRED though actually opposite. Due to get Aunt Flow on the 9th.

You would think I would know the drill but it has been SO LONG. Do you think it is possible I am pregnant or do you think my period symptoms are just getting worse with age? This wait is KILLING me. I took a test 3 days ago which I know was WAY too early and it was NEG.
Any thoughts would be great...

And good luck to you all.. Giving you lots of baby DUST.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-29-2007
In reply to: nats28
Tue, 11-03-2009 - 7:52pm
Your symptoms look promising.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-03-2009
In reply to: nats28
Tue, 11-03-2009 - 9:02pm
I actually took a Walgreens test tonight and had a VERY faint blue line and then took a fact/plus and it was a BFN. I'm kinda bummin.. I hear the Walgreens test can give you a false positive. Though it is still early to be testing!!
Thank you for your reply!! :0)
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-11-2009
In reply to: nats28
Wed, 11-04-2009 - 9:08am
Funny I think I could have written your post!
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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-22-2009
In reply to: nats28
Wed, 11-04-2009 - 10:36am
LOL....I feel like I could have written your post! I had my last AF starting on 10.12.09. We had sex 23rd, 24th,25th.
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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-03-2009
In reply to: nats28
Wed, 11-04-2009 - 12:17pm

Wow you were not kidding!!! Did you just turn 35 too? I actually took a fact plus this am and again skinny faint blue line... I am so confused. However, fact /Plus is the blue dye like walgreens!! So who knows. I woke up and my breasts feel even more swollen. Maybe it is in my head.

Have you taken a test yet?

I sometimes wonder if I am nuts wanting number four...

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-11-2009
In reply to: nats28
Wed, 11-04-2009 - 12:57pm
Lol, Actually I turned 35 in Feb!
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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-03-2009
In reply to: nats28
Wed, 11-04-2009 - 3:25pm

Wow, you have all little guys. Thats how most people do it. Mine are so spaced out !!! 18,13,and 5.

What is kwim? lol I am still learning all the message bored lingo.
I hope your spotting in IMPLANTATION. I normally spot 4 or 5 days before period. So, if I am going to start... I should be starting to spot too soon.

GOOD LUCK. Lets keep eachother posted!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-03-2009
In reply to: nats28
Wed, 11-04-2009 - 3:42pm

I am so mad.. I had my whole message typed out and then I did something everything gone. So hear I am typing it all over.

Anyway, yes bpmom I think we are testing too early!!

Any one else becoming a pregnancy test whore? lol I am becoming a freak!!! I need to stop. NOT taking anymore. I am driving myself insane!!! Here is my update

Last night-Walgeens test-faint faint blue line.
3 hours after walgreens test, took fact/plus- BFN

This am Fact PLus- faint faint half of blue line
2 hours later -WAlgreens-BFN

So... I give up.

If I don't start my Tuesday.. I will know something is up!! I should start spotting soon I ALWAYS spot 3 to 5 days before actual AF comes.

By the way thanks for all your replys. It's nice to know there are other woman out there going through the same thing!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-29-2007
In reply to: nats28
Wed, 11-04-2009 - 4:00pm

NATS28 - I need your insight.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-03-2009
In reply to: nats28
Wed, 11-04-2009 - 10:39pm

I like mine being spaced out. I know lots of people want to have them only a few months apart. I concern having your youngest being 12. My friend has 16 and 13 and just had a baby who is now 6 months and now she wants another so her 6month old has a sibiling the same age.

I think it is all how you I about it. If your heart is set on having another child.. I would say go for it. Is this a new husband? I know I thought I NEVER wanted more kids until I got remarried!! I still to be HONEST go back and forth. We just started trying.. and I am not going to lie sometimes I have mixed emotions..When I take a BFN pregnancy test I am devastated and when I think I may be.. I get a little nervous.

I think when all is said and done if it is meant to be it will be. So, if you try and it happens GREAT and if it does not it was not meant to me.

Sorry I was not much help!! How long have you been trying??? You think once you have 3 kids that you are fertile mertile.. but, I guess thats not always the case. I am only giving it like 8 months... If I can't get pregnant at the age of 35 I think I will give up. A big factor in me waiting so long to try was my age.. However, I guess lots of women are having babies now 35-40 and the babies are healthy. My age makes me nervous... I guess I should not be??

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