Prayer/Support Group

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Fri, 08-22-2003 - 10:20pm


I have been doing a lot of thinking about my experience TTC so far...and I am beginning to truly believe that it is time for me to stop worrying so much and stressing out over every little thing, and put it in God's hands. I keep saying what I want...but I think that it is important for me to pray God's will be done in this. I don't want to sound like I'm preaching or anything...I just wondered if there was anyone out there who would like to join me in a kind of prayer/support group...we could support each other and pray for each other along the way...kinda a check in with each other and in the process we'll be reminded to check in with God more.

I want a baby more than anything else...and it occurred to me today that I need to not lose sight of all the blessings I already have in my life. I pray that God will bless me with a baby...but I also need to pray that I will be open to whatever happens..whether that be to conceive a child, to adopt, or to not have children...and to trust that God has a plan.

Does this make sense to anyone out there? Anyone want to join me?

I hope this does not offend anyone. I'm usually not so "vocal" about my spiritual beliefs, but I just felt I needed to say what is in my heart and see if there are any others feeling the same way.

Anne

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Sat, 08-23-2003 - 10:02am
Hi Anne- another Anne here wanting to join you in prayer and support! I have to go to work today but really would like to pray for you and others! So keep me posted! I am in California, back from work around 4:25pm. Have a great day and thanks for starting this post!! Anne ttc1,c1, cd18
Anne

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Sat, 08-23-2003 - 11:02am
Your words ring so true Anne! It's sometimes hard to "let go" of things and put them in God's hands. It's funny how we struggle day in and day out and don't ask for the help that it right there in front of us. It's also very hard to comprehend that there is also a larger plan out there.

Through my experiences, I've come to understand first hand that it's important not so much to ask God to change things, but rather ask him to help you deal with them.

Thanks for the reminder.....

Heather

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Sat, 08-23-2003 - 11:51am
Hey Anne,

What a wonderful idea, and I hope you will count me in. I was never brought up in a very religious setting, and some would probably say that I've never lived a very christian life, but that does not mean that I can't believe in powers greater than my own, because I do, and I believe that everything happens for a reason. We may not completely understand that reason right off the bat, but usually the understanding is realized. However, my DH was brought up in a very religious setting, attended church regularly, attended a christian school, etc. So our experiences have been very different. Unfortunately, we have not found a "Home " church to call our own as a married couple. There is one we attend occasionally if we are not visiting family or friends out of town on the weekends ( which is a lot of times the case ) But, I've always felt you did not actually have to walk through some church's doors to pour your heart and soul out to God, to ask forgiveness, to pray, or to thank Him for our many blessings. He can be right in our living room if we just call on Him.

I hope I can be a part of this group. I think that would be a blessing in itself.

God's speed to everyone, and His will be done in all our lives!!!

Thanks Anne!!!!!!

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Sat, 08-23-2003 - 12:56pm
Count me in! I hope you don't mind this but I received the following in an email this morning and thought it very appropriate.

Kathy

The Road of Life

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> At first, I saw God as my observer, my judge, keeping track of the things I did wrong, so as to know whether I merited heaven or hell when I die. He was out there sort of like a president. I recognized His picture when I saw it, but I really didn't know Him. But later on when I met Christ, it seemed as though life were rather like a bike ride, but it was a tandem bike, and I noticed that Christ was in the back helping me pedal. I don't know just when it was that He suggested we change places, but life has not been the same since.

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> When I had control, I knew the way. It was rather boring, but predictable it was the shortest distance between two points. But when He took the lead, He knew delightful long cuts, up mountains, and through rocky places at breakneck speeds. It was all I could do to hang on!

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> Even though it looked like madness, He said, "Pedal!" I worried and was anxious and asked, "Where are you taking me?" He laughed and didn't answer, and I started to learn to trust. I forgot my boring life and entered into the adventure, and when I'd say, "I'm scared," He'd lean back and touch my hand. I gained love, peace, acceptance and joy; gifts to take on my journey, My Lord's and mine. And we were off again.

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> He said, "Give the gifts away. They're extra baggage, too much weight." So I did, to the people we met, and I found that in giving I received, and still our burden was light.

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> I did not trust Him, at first, in control of my life. I thought He'd wreck it; but he knows bike secrets, knows how to make it bend to take sharp corners, knows how to jump to clear high rocks, knows how to fly to shorten, scary passages. And I am learning to shut up and pedal in the strangest places, and I'm beginning to enjoy the view and the cool breeze on my face with my delightful constant companion, Jesus Christ.

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> And when I'm sure I just can't do it anymore, He just smiles and says... "Pedal."

Kathy & Liliane Avery (Lily) Dickens

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Sat, 08-23-2003 - 1:09pm
Anne, Heather, Lisa, and Kathy!

Yay! I was worried no one would want to join me in this...especially on the weekend when things are so slow.

Please know that I will be keeping you each in my prayers as we continue on this TTC adventure! I really believe that this will help us each feel so much more peace and hope as the days go by. This can be a really stressful time, so I know this will help.

Kathy...I love what you posted! That is exactly the sort of thing I was hoping for...just those words of inspiration and hope help me so much.

Lisa...I understand exactly where you are coming from. I did not grow up in a very religious family either...and my DH has been very instrumental in helping me grow spiritually...He has such a strong faith in God, and I hope to become more like him in that area.

We should come up with a name for our group...and maybe just start a thread each day where we can update each other on how we are doing...share any words of hope we may have (like Kathy did today)...or just whatever we want to do! Does that sound okay?

Anyone have any name suggestions?

Okay...I'm excited about this! Maybe some others will join us, too!

Take care,

Anne

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Sat, 08-23-2003 - 1:29pm
Heya Anne!

I'll put some thought into a name. I have a christian rock cd by Rebecca St. James that I listen to (and sing along with) almost every day. My BIL turned me on to her music and it is so inspirational! This cd is called "Pray". Not sure if you have an interest in hearing it but if you do, send me an email at kdupuy@cox-internet.com with your address and I'll be happy to share it with you. If you want to get it on your own, you may be able to find it at Walmart or I know you could definitely order it online at amazon or half.com. I just can't express how much her songs inspire me.

Great idea to do this btw.. I look forward to this!

Kathy



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Sat, 08-23-2003 - 1:31pm
OHMYGOSH! I want to join! I have been Christian for about 2 years now and I know God is working something incredible in my life. I have wanted a baby for quite a while now, and my dh and I have been ttc for 7 months, but really only 2. I have only counted the days for a little bit now. I just felt the calling to have a baby. The thing is, I dont even have insurance and I am a junior in collge, and I dont know how I would survive. I do know that God has a plan and he has put this void in my and DH's life for a reason. He will take care of us and I have to trust that. Even if I have to pay off the hospital and drop out of school...it will be for Him because its what He wants. I have shared this before, but you may not have read. Last Sunday in Church I felt Jesus speaking to me, telling me not to worry and that I needed to thank Him for the baby He was going to give me instead of asking Him for one. I dont need to anymore! I am not saying that I am pregnant (although I am not saying I am not), but I know I will be soon. Every time I pray now I feel so incredible. He is working in my life like never before and I love Him so much for it! I cant explain what I feel! Thank you so much for this opportunity and I hope to hear from youall soon. Thanks guys!

Oli

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Sat, 08-23-2003 - 2:01pm


Hi Kathy...

I just got the Rebecca St. James CD a couple of weeks ago! I love it too! I also like Jaci Velasquez, Nicole Mullen, Point of Grace, and Mercy Me.

Well...I've gotta get back to work... :(

I'll be thinking about a name for the group too...will write more later.

Anne

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Sat, 08-23-2003 - 2:02pm
Hi Oli!

Sure you can join! That is great!

I can't write more because I'm supposed to be working...but I just wanted to say a quick hello to you!

Anne

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Sat, 08-23-2003 - 2:38pm
I got a name suggestion------ How 'bout " Prayer Posse " ?

or maybe "Sisters of Support" (SOS),

or maybe "S.W.A.T" - Supportive Women Acting Together

I guess that's enough suggestions from me. Come on ladies. What's some other ideas!!!

~Lisa O~

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