single parent but would like another baby!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2011
single parent but would like another baby!!
Tue, 07-26-2011 - 1:01pm

im a single parent to 2 lovely kids! ive got a DD 6 yrs old. i fell pregnant with her when i was 18 and her father didnt want to know but now he has started to see her which is only like 1 a month! then i have a beautyfull baby boy 13 months i was with his dad for 2 yrs. we were gd friends then started dating and fell pregnant within 4 months but sadly i misscaried my baby then i fell pg with my boy and ad trouble when i was carrying him

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-01-2011
Tue, 07-26-2011 - 1:38pm
Voluntarily becoming a single mom to 3 kiddos screams out "bad idea" to me. Why not look for someone who can be a spouse & full time parent to your current kids & ones you could have together?

I just don't understand the appeal of a part time dad who shows up 1 day during the week & on week ends. You & your kids deserve more than that. Don't sell yourself short...

Good luck
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Registered: 12-14-2009
Tue, 07-26-2011 - 1:42pm
I would look for a spouse who wants to be a full-time Dad to both your children and that you could share a special bond with by having a 3rd child together. I have an ex of my 3 children who was always part time Dad when we were married and it so wasn't worth it the headache, heartache and the pain it puts the kids through. Luckily, I have found the love of my life and he is the father to the children, a husband to me and we are sharing the chance to have a child of our own together.

Don't put your kids through having a part time Dad....they suffer in the end. Go out and look for the love of your life and than consider sharing that bond. Not to mention, what are you teaching your daughter?

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