so confused

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Registered: 03-11-2007
so confused
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Tue, 10-21-2008 - 2:20pm
I took the first response digital this morning and it said no. My period is due tomorrow and I have 28 day cycles consistently. With all the mucus signs and feelings I'm pretty sure I ovulated between the 5th and 10th. We had sex every day and DH was losing his mojo the last week...sorry tmi! I just don't know if I can deal with the disappointment or begging dh to do it every day again. Does that make me a bad person?
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Registered: 01-04-2007
In reply to: mommy_ya
Tue, 10-21-2008 - 2:27pm

It's hard every month. However, if you find over the next month or two that your cycle is regular (O and AF are about the same CDs every month)...you can just BD 3 or 4 times around O time. It only takes one BD to conceive. It's important IMO to focus on keeping DH from getting frustrated with the TTCing.... I am on cycle 5 of charting (8 cycles TTC) and for us it has gotten easier...we have learned not to read too much into things. It still sucks to get a BFN, but I just don't test *until AF is late*. The best way to prevent yourself from POAS too early or before AF is a day or two late is to NOT buy HPTs until AF is late. It's hard to POAS if you don't have one in the bathroom cabinet. KWIM?

Also, not temping after O is confirmed really help the stress level each cycle. HTH.

Here's My Chart: http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/21828b


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