So confused! Ugh!

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Registered: 08-08-2011
So confused! Ugh!
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Mon, 12-12-2011 - 8:52pm
So, I haven't been in here for a while, I check back periodically, but I have been feeling refreshed and relaxed since we are "taking a break" from TTC. My cycles have been shorter than the norm, I am now averaging 25 day cycles the last 3-4 months. I don't want to be gross, but want to tell the whole story. I know I will probably jinx myself speaking it out loud! Lol. The night before AF was due, DH and I BD'd. I went to the Bathroom shortly after and wiped there was some pink. I figured I was about to start, so I put a pad on. The next day we were running around, but every time I wiped, nothing. I checked myself several times to see of it was about to start, nothing. We BD'd again that night. When I went to the bathroom, brownish CM when I wiped. Figured I started then. Nothing all day today. I took a preg test today, wasn't with my first morning urine, it was neg. With everything going on, we only BD'd like twice this month, which was after I should have ovulated (although I didn't do any ovulation testing). So I have no idea what's going on. If I am going to start, I would like to get the show on the road. I have to get my wisdom teeth out and we have scheduled it and requested time off work according to my next menstrual cycle, since I have to be 100% sure that I am not pregnant. This of course would mess it up. I don't know what any of this means, I had cramps like once or twice several days ago, but since every month is different, I just never know. I'm sure as soon as I post this, I will start! Any advice!? Danielle
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Mon, 12-12-2011 - 9:50pm
Hmmmm, I would test again tomorrow. Maybe this cycle was going to be longer and you actually hit o day or the days leading up to it. Maybe the spotting is implantation bleeding?
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Mon, 12-12-2011 - 10:39pm
I wasted my last good test this morning, lol. I have some internet cheapies left, I may wait on them. Its probably just messing with me since I planned my wisdom teeth extraction around it, now it wants to mess with me, ugh! Haha. I didnt know what to think since it was only after I wiped after BD ING. Thanks tho! I'll keep ya updated! I appreciate your response!! :)
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Tue, 12-13-2011 - 12:34pm
Sometimes I get light spotting after sex & it's usually related to how low the cervix might be.

Fx'd you jynxed yourself into a bfp by scheduling the wisdom teeth extraction!!!
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Tue, 12-13-2011 - 7:18pm
Thanks for the positive outlook Prana! I've never had that happen before, but I totally assumed it was AF starting. So, who knows.:)
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Wed, 12-14-2011 - 12:48pm

Well, AF showed today. As much as I tried to prepare myself, her appearance this month - is by far the hardest so far!

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Wed, 12-14-2011 - 1:44pm
:( I am so sorry.
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Wed, 12-14-2011 - 4:32pm
So sorry Mrsmoore :(.
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Wed, 12-14-2011 - 5:45pm
((hugs)) sorry that she showed her ugly face
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Wed, 12-14-2011 - 6:18pm
So sorry she found you :( Ttc around the holidays definitely takes an extra toll on our hearts ((hugs))
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Wed, 12-14-2011 - 10:23pm
So sorry AF found you! Hope you feel better soon!

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