Those darn phantom signs...or ARE THEY?
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| Sun, 09-28-2008 - 1:32pm |
Okay its not really a phantom sign but more or less something I just noticed this morning when i woke up. I am kinda having some lower abdomon cramping AF isnt due untill thursday. It is mild, but enough to notice and of course get my head spinning. I had already gone to the bathroom and it is very localized in the frontish area, sso I know its not that. (sorry tmi) Is AF coming early (some times i do occassionally get crampin g the morning AF arrives, but this isnt really the same)...or is it baby? uggh. I checked to see if there was any pink...nada! No luck. So maybe she isnt coming or maybe its somthing else. I hate testing, because the dissapointment drives me nuts, so I wait to see if i miss AF then test... so what now it is four days and counting! ANNOYING. I hate that ttc has driven me nuts like this...but it will all be worth it if I get my bfp.

I understand how you feel. About 4 or 5 days before I thought my period was due, I got menstrual like cramps, but only on one side almost near where you would think an ovary would be.
I secretly hoped it was imlantation cramping, but of course you don't want to get your hopes up. I started testing immediately anyway. Got a couple BFN's, then got a BFP at midnight on an FRER four days before my period was due.
So it can be a good sign, but it could be wishful thinking. I hope it's not wishful thinking.
I will be praying that this is the month you get your BFP. If it is implantation cramping, you're supposed to be able to test withing two to three days. (Some say a day or two, but why get needless BFNs?)
You're a much better woman than I am. I couldn't wait to test, and I cried over and over thinking I'd never get pregnant again. And it was only because I tested too early. So really, you probably have the better idea than I did. Waiting until your period is supposed to be due.
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