too tired to BD

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Registered: 09-23-2008
too tired to BD
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Mon, 10-06-2008 - 2:07pm
I finally get my DH to agree to formally try and set up dates on the calendar and it is the first time I am too tired to BD or even try to get in the mood... any advice... I am still technically a few days away from really being fertile I just hope I get out of this slump soon.... u would think just wanting to get pregnant would be enough to get me motivated

CINDY

DD SARA CARINA (6/8/07)

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Mon, 10-06-2008 - 2:26pm
I hear ya - I missed a key BD day because DH couldn't wake me up! LOL Oh well. I can only suggest that you put forth the effort, if it involves flirty phonecalls in the middle of the day or wearing sexy underwear under your work clothes... something that'll keep BDing on your mind all day. And sometimes, even if you're tired, the best way to get in the mood is to "fake it till you make it." Good luck!!


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Registered: 09-23-2008
Mon, 10-06-2008 - 3:48pm
I know...lol....well I think I am going to the mall and picking up some BD clothes so we can both get in the mood for the next week or so...hahaha

CINDY

DD SARA CARINA (6/8/07)

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Mon, 10-06-2008 - 6:52pm

When I'm about to O I usually get in the mood or dream about it.
But sometimes Dh isn't at home, so frustrating!

chicks
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Registered: 03-31-2003
Mon, 10-06-2008 - 7:26pm

I totally understand! My husband recently started a new job and has to work REALLY late hours. So I tell him the days, he comes home between midnight and 1 am and we BD. It's not exactly romantic (I prep myself before I go to bed --wash up, etc) he comes in while I'm asleep, we kind of mess around (no kissing though, yuck!) and then we get to it. I have to get up really early for work so I try not to even open my eyes, LOL. That sounds terrible but it's actually been pretty good the two times we've had to do it that way. I always want to do it during the day but by the time I'm asleep, I could care less! But I just want a baby badly enough that I'm willing to sacrifice the sleep. BUT if we do get a BFP soon, I don't know how much more I can take. I'm freaking tired!


Good luck!


Camille

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