TTC-Just needing to vent

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Registered: 06-11-2014
TTC-Just needing to vent
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Wed, 06-11-2014 - 10:09pm

Hello,

My husband and I have been ttc for over 13 years now to no avail. I have had so many test ran  been poked and prodded so many times it's heartbreaking. I am 33 years old and I feel it in my soul that I am getting bitter and bitter by the year. We are firm believers and I find mysen our church begging God to grant me children or give me answers or some kind of ray of hope.  Year after year unwed ladies in my church just pop up pregnant without even trying and I find myself becoming hateful and judgemental(secretly wishing it was me.I have no family or friends to talk to about this issue because they all have children they dont have time for or dont even want. My heart cries, and I inwarldlyCry want to lose hope but I cant. My husband is so supportive but the thought of being barren overshadows his love for me. Lord help me! Answer me! Heal me ! Hear my hearts cry!!!!!!!

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Registered: 08-26-2014
Tue, 08-26-2014 - 5:22pm

I sympathize with what you are going through. I have a couple close friends who struggle with infertility and it is a difficult experience. (I've only been married a year and started TTC this week, so I have no experience to speak of.)

I am never sure how to be supportive or to encourage them, so I just listen and pray for them and tell them I care. What do you wish someone would say or do to encourage you?