Update...

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Registered: 10-10-2009
Update...
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Sun, 08-12-2012 - 6:51am
First of all, thanks for the messages of support I have received from a few of you, you dont know how much it means. I've been distancing myself from here for purely selfish reasons. Everyone has overtaken me now, the ladies who I was sharing my cycle with have all moved on to the next part of a new cycle, and I'm stuck in limbo. This is really hard for me, but I want you all to know that I think of you all the time and am hoping for the best for every single person on this board.

My period was due 3 weeks ago and I've not had a single spot. Every single test I've done (and it's a lot) has been negative. I have crazy abdominal bloating so much so that my clothes don't fit me, however I have no pregnancy symptoms now.

If I had missed the last period due to stress, I would be on day 20 of a new cycle, however I've had nothing to indicate ovulation this month. I really am stick in a no-man's land. I'm frustrated and upset and my doctor referred me for an ultrasound however the hospital can't get me in until this Friday (17th), do I'm just waiting.

I just don't know what to think. Xx
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Registered: 10-10-2009
In reply to: mummyto2_uk
Fri, 08-17-2012 - 6:31am
Thanks everyone. Your support means so much to me. I really hope everyone's doing ok.

I had my scan this morning...however it was performed by a radiographer who isn't qualified to tell you anything. Grrrrrrrr. They basically do what they need to do, have a look, if they see anything like cysts, they take measurements, but I need to see my gp for the results once the ultrasound information has been checked over by a doctor. I hate hate hate this. I feel so down today, I was hoping for a radiographer consultant who can tell you there and then, but you just get whoever is available on the day and I got a guy who hardly spoke a word. Bloody hurt when he pressed on my right hand side though so I'm thinking 'cyst' x
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Registered: 01-26-2009
In reply to: mummyto2_uk
Mon, 08-13-2012 - 12:37pm
I know how you feel, earlier this year I went 61 days without AF showing. Its soooo frustrating. I thought it was it and then my blood test came back neg. I cried soo much. I hope you get some answers soon. Maybe all this will pay off and you will see a little bean in there!

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Registered: 11-20-2008
In reply to: smthwf08
Sun, 08-12-2012 - 7:32pm
Feel free to vent anytime. That's what we ar here for....to all go through this together. I understand frustration....I hope you get some answers on Friday!
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Registered: 07-19-2003
In reply to: mummyto2_uk
Sun, 08-12-2012 - 2:14pm

I get you.  I am on cycle day 52.  The last time I tested was on 8/4 and it wa a BFN.  I'm waiting on tests I ordered to come in before testing again.  They should come in this week.  If I get another BFN, I am going to schedule an appointment with my doctor to see what is going on.  I hope you get some answers soon.

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Registered: 11-19-2011
In reply to: mummyto2_uk
Sun, 08-12-2012 - 1:05pm

I'm so sorry that you're in this situation!  I really hope you get some answers soon, and I hate that you have to wait so long to get the ultrasound!  There is so much waiting involved in TTC, and it sounds like you're having more than your fair share.  (((HUGS)))!!

Tiffany

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Registered: 07-16-2007
In reply to: mummyto2_uk
Sun, 08-12-2012 - 10:54am

I'm feeling the same way!  AF was due last Tuesday and I've had no spotting or anything.  I took a test this morning even though I was supposed to wait until tomorrow to see if my line was darker, and now I see nothing.  MAYBE a faint something.  I am so bummed.  I have gotten several faint lines over the last week, and I was expecting to see a darker one today.  I don't know what to think.  Also, I just came off of BC pills a few months ago, and was put on progesterone to force my period since I never got one after stopping the pill.  My doctor told me when she gave me the progesterone that once I had my withdrawal bleed, I should go through my cycle and have my next period within 35 days.  This coming Tuesday will be 35 days, so now I have to go see her for further testing to find out whats going on, which scares me.  Plus, I have had cold symptoms and bloating for the last couple of weeks, and I just knew it was because I was pregnant.  All of these things together put me in tears this morning when I didn't see a darker line.  I'm hoping that I am pregnant, and it's just not showing up yet, but I'm losing hope for this cycle.  I know we have time, and can keep trying, but I just am so discouraged.  Sorry for this long paragraph of venting, but just know that I am starting to feel in limbo with you.  I just want to know now if I'm pregnant, or I want AF to start so we can move on and try again!  Good luck to you!

 

Casey 

 

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Registered: 10-06-2010
Sun, 08-12-2012 - 10:24am

I've been wondering what's happening with you, but I completely understand distancing yourself for a while.  You need to take care of you!  I really hope that the ultrasound can tell you something and help you move on (either PG or new cycle....as long as you leave the state of limbo).  That stinks that they can't get you in before the 17th :smileysad: 

Feel free to vent whenever needed, but make sure you do what's best for you.  Good luck!!!

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Registered: 10-10-2009
In reply to: mummyto2_uk
Sun, 08-12-2012 - 6:52am
Sorry for all the typo's lol xx