Vent sorry I just want to get pregnant

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Registered: 07-02-2003
Vent sorry I just want to get pregnant
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Tue, 10-07-2003 - 1:52pm

I feel like I just can't get pregnant no matter what I have done the charting and the temps the kits and just plan luck but No not one postive sign This will only be our 4th month trying but I feel like it will never happen. I had a child when I was 17 and of course geting pregnant then was very easy one month of not taking the pill and oops. But why is it so hard this time? Could there be something wrong with me ?

Ashley T.
 
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Tue, 10-07-2003 - 1:58pm
Venting is necessary and good for you!

It can be frustrating, but I'd say be patient. Also, what do the charting/temps/kits say? i.e. are you ovulating? Then it's probably just a matter of timing and luck. If it will make you feel better, you may want to get some tests (and your dh too) just to make sure there are no problems. Also, stress has been associated with difficulty conceiving (I know, easier said that done!)
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Tue, 10-07-2003 - 2:01pm

they have said I was ovulating and so we try and nothing? Is There anything else I can try at home to

Ashley T.
 
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Tue, 10-07-2003 - 2:03pm
What my OB told me was that once the OPK says "O", BD BD BD.
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Tue, 10-07-2003 - 2:04pm
Ashley,

(((((HUGS))))))

We ALL understand how you are feeling - I especially feel that way when I get all worked up hoping for a BFP, only to get a BFN!!

There is no real answer - just try to time BD - and do the best you can.

If you are starting to think that you may need a little help, then talk to your Dr.

They usually dont take it too seriously unless you have been officially trying for 6 months plus, (sometimes even a year I hear.) So, if you get to the point where you want to see your Dr, just remember that. ~wink~

I am on my first month of Clomid, (which is supposed to induce ovulation), after 14 months of trying. (3 months of which I had no AF)

The Dr. ran some basic blood tests and did an ultra sound before deciding that Clomid was the way to go for me.

Good Luck to you, and just remember that you are not alone - there are alot of ladies on this board and others that feel like you do all the time!!

((((HUGS))))))

Stephanie