Well, 19 DPO and BFN.

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Well, 19 DPO and BFN.
Sat, 12-03-2011 - 9:21am
Sorry I haven't been around, I have been in a total funk. I feel so ashamed. :(

But here we go ladies, take a look at my chart, I'm pretty sure my O date isn't wrong. I am 19 DPO with no AF or BFP. On 13 DPO I gave up testing and 14 DPO I stopped temping. My temp dropped slightly and I assumed it'd be on a steady decline and AF would arrive. Well she's still not here! So I started testing again on 17 DPO and I'm still getting BFNs. I took my temp today for the heck of it and it's 98.62! Grrrrr what the heck?! And during the days I wasn't testing I actually starting to convince myself I was pregnant because I had increase thirst and I wanted to put hot peppers on everything. I even convinced myself the IC's I bought were bad so I went and got FRERs and that was negative too!

What gives? I have an appointment with my OB/GYN on Tuesday but if AF still isn't here by Monday should I go in for a blood test? Is there something more serious going on here? Ugh, why has this been the worst cycle ever? :(


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Thu, 12-08-2011 - 10:01pm
Sorry that the witch came doesn't she know Halloween is over.I hope you get your bfp soon!
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Thu, 12-08-2011 - 1:12pm
So sorry Lex, here's hoping the HSG goes great and gets your system perfectly ready for that BFP!!! A friend of mine tried for a couple years, then the next cycle after her HSG she got pregnant. Her Dr. told her it really helps your odds w/ttc b/c it clears everything out :).
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Registered: 10-20-2008
Wed, 12-07-2011 - 9:52pm
I'm sorry lex, AF sucks :(

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Expecting our little girl after three m/c - EDD 11/29/12

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Registered: 07-24-2011
Wed, 12-07-2011 - 8:58pm
AF needs to get with the program and take a 9 month vacation. Doesn't she know that vacations are good things.
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Wed, 12-07-2011 - 5:44pm
Stupid AF! Boo......
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Wed, 12-07-2011 - 5:29pm
Lex I'm so sorry that AF came. FX'd that you can have better luck with the HSG and finally get some answers. I really hope they don't make you drive to that far away hospital again to get it done.


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Wed, 12-07-2011 - 2:27pm
ah man, so sorry Lex. Holy cow that's a long LP! Hopefully your doc can give you some answers.
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Wed, 12-07-2011 - 1:48pm
I'm so sorry, WTH! Do you think you'll see an RE? The great thing about seeing the RE is they can get all your diagnositic testing out of the way really quick, whereas it seems to take obgyns forever to do it...at least mine kept forgetting this or that test or their phlebotomist would put my blood in the wrong tube and I'd have to re-do certain tests. Total pain. My obgyn wanted to do an HSG on me but I figured my tubes were open since I was having miscarriages, so I just decided to quit testing w/my obgyn...but our insurance so far for the RE has been decent, so that definately affected our decision too. My RE did a SIS instead of HSG, tons of bloodwork, started me on clomid, trigger shot, and I've only been seeing her since Nov 14. It's just nice to know that it's her job to help me get pregnant. ;) Good luck with the hsg and I hope this upcoming cycle works out so you can move on.
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Registered: 09-08-2011
Wed, 12-07-2011 - 1:02pm

I'm so sorry.

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Madelyn, February 26, 2001
Aaron, January 2, 2005
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Registered: 03-01-2011
Wed, 12-07-2011 - 12:59pm
Oh man!! Eff bombs away :( I'm so sorry af showed & your body is messing with you. I really hoped this was it. Did your dr have any thoughts on why your lp is so long?

Are you going to go ahead & see the RE now? Perhaps they will have more insight for you. Hopefully you will have better luck with the HSG this time around -you better call & schedule it before that horrible woman sends you away to that far off hospital again!!