Well I guess I'm going back on the pill

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Registered: 09-03-2003
Well I guess I'm going back on the pill
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Thu, 09-11-2003 - 2:43pm
Well maybe it's a good thing that I'm not pg this month even though AF is 3 days late. I just found out about 20 minutes ago that I am being laid off. Things are really down here in South Carolina and jobs are hard to find. So me and DH decided to go back on the pill for a bit longer. It was good talking to all of you but Probably after today I won't be back on the board cause I still want another baby and it'll just depress me. Thanks to every1.

Rhonda

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Registered: 05-20-2003
Thu, 09-11-2003 - 2:50pm
Rhonda I am so sorry to hear your news!!! What part of S. Carolina are you in? I'm in Columbia....

I hope things turn around for you and your DH and that soon the time will come when you feel you're ready to start TTC again. When you are, we're all here for you!

Kristen



TTC1 C9 DPO8

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Registered: 05-14-2003
Thu, 09-11-2003 - 2:56pm
Oh, honey, I hope you get this before you leave.

If everyone waited until the time was right, no one would ever have babies. Thats the truth and I know you know it. I am sorry that you got laid off, but who is to say another job wont pop up? I know, I know...one might not, but if not then it is in Gods will. As far as bcp go, watch out. If you go back on then when you decide to try again it may take longer because of the pill. And by the time it gets out of your system then something else will pop up and you may want to wait again. Why dont you try NFP? It has great results. I am sorry, I am not trying to offend you or pressure you, I just dont want you to do anything you will later regret. If God doesnt want you to get pregnant, you wont. Simple as that. He will take care of you no matter what and will never give you anything you cant handle. I promise. I hope this helps and that I havent overstepped my boundaries. You are in my prayers!

Oli

Katie


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Thu, 09-11-2003 - 3:36pm
Kristen - I am in Greenville.....wish I was in Columbia though. Maybe jobs aren't so hard to come by over there ! lol Thanks for your comments. I really appreciate them. Does make me feel somewhat better.

Oli - Thanks for your response to. Beleive it or not I look at it the same way you do but DH is worried about it more than I am. I think that when God thinks its time he will let it happen but hubby thinks we need to take precaution b/c with my DS I got put on bedrest for 6 months so I'll need a good job so I can have maturnity leave and disability if I have to go on bedrest. We are going to talk more about it tonight and i'm going to suggest that we just use some other kind of protection instead of goin back on BC. Oh yea by the way what is NFP? Well I guess I'll check back in just a bit to see if you replied. Thanks to both of you again for your words of encouragement. It really helps.

Rhonda