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What are my chances?
| Fri, 10-03-2003 - 7:12pm |
I just read how someone got a BFP and they only had sex one time and it was 2 or 3 days before Oing... Dh and I were able to BD about 3 or 4 days before I think I O'd and then he deployed... SOO... what I'm asking is, WHAT are my chances that the sperm could have actually made it? I've read that sperm can live UP to 5 days, and I even think I had fertile CM the da y we BD'd, but I'm scared to hope too much. I did lay there for almost an hour with a pillow under me. (i felt like a fool, lol, but hey, if it works!!)
I mean, are the chances slim or what?
Thanks!
Camille
I mean, are the chances slim or what?
Thanks!
Camille



Lisa
ttc#2 c2 cd17
LOL, no joke Lisa!!! I asked a friend about it and she was like, "No way, two days is the max" and it totally crushed me (even tho I don't really believe her!!) I guess even if I say I'm not going to get my hopes up, I can't really help it!! Thanks, Lisa!!
Camille
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Katie
Married to highschool sweetheart since 8-12-02
if you look at charts in FF, there are many who got a BFP when BDing was 3 days before.. and a few with 4days... I haven't seen one with 5 however. I'd say if you're sure of your O date, and had good CM, you have got a good fighting chance!
best of luck!
Cathy
Thanks for the hope! :)
Camille
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I'm not POSITIVE of my O date because I haven't been charting or anything, but I did start to notice watery CM starting the Wed night that we BD'd (before BDing) and then up until the day after I think I O'd. (I'm guessing I O'd Sunday night, which would be four nights, but I say five because, who knows, maybe I O'd Monday... or maybe I didn't O at all, or maybe I O'd Friday, LOL! I was so mad because his boat left earlier than expected so we lost a few days of BDing that I was counting on! Stupid boat!)
Camille
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